I figured out what men want!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Thankfully that is NOT what DH likes about me nor does he need to be told how awesome he is all the time. Probably why our marriage is so great

I think my husband of many years loves me because I’m confident, independent, low maintenance, rarely nag, was or is still a good mother and now grandmother and I still love sex. I love him for the same reasons plus he was incredibly successful and we lead a very comfortable life. If I told him he was awesome he’d say I was pandering and ask what was I up to? I think OPs friends are still in a lala land dream state. Let’s see what they say in 30 years.

I'm the PP and this is pretty much us too. I love how proud DH is of me and what I've accomplished as well. We thank each other for cooking dinner and helping out, but that's just from a level of respect we have for each other. He thanks me when I make dinner and vice versa. We are very much equals which is nice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thankfully that is NOT what DH likes about me nor does he need to be told how awesome he is all the time. Probably why our marriage is so great

I think my husband of many years loves me because I’m confident, independent, low maintenance, rarely nag, was or is still a good mother and now grandmother and I still love sex. I love him for the same reasons plus he was incredibly successful and we lead a very comfortable life. If I told him he was awesome he’d say I was pandering and ask what was I up to? I think OPs friends are still in a lala land dream state. Let’s see what they say in 30 years.

I'm the PP and this is pretty much us too. I love how proud DH is of me and what I've accomplished as well. We thank each other for cooking dinner and helping out, but that's just from a level of respect we have for each other. He thanks me when I make dinner and vice versa. We are very much equals which is nice.

Your relationship sounds like a scripted soap opera.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men just wanna be told they’re awesome all the time.

If they take their own plate to the sink, they want to be told good job!

In bed you must pretend they’re the most amazing lay you’ve ever had.

If they tell you something you already know, you have to pretend to be so thankful with all wonder in the world to be impart this knowledge from them.

I mean, it’s pretty simple.

^^ just wants a guy to be her verbal punching bag.

[Anonymous]

I think good enough looks, social grace, kindness, planning and executive skills, motherly nature are behind most marriages where men are happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What men want:

In college: get drunk and get laid

Post college: get laid

Marriage: be well fed and get laid

That’s the base from which you need to work with. They are fundamentally very simple, ape like in many ways. Ideally they’d be sitting up in trees like apes peeing down on the apes below them.

[Anonymous]

A lady in the streets and a freak in the bed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think good enough looks, social grace, kindness, planning and executive skills, motherly nature are behind most marriages where men are happy.

I honestly don’t even care that much about looks. Just stay fit and have regular sex.

[Anonymous]

My husband wants me to be well educated about world news.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband wants me to be well educated about world news.

That’s all? That sets a pretty low bar!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thankfully that is NOT what DH likes about me nor does he need to be told how awesome he is all the time. Probably why our marriage is so great

I think my husband of many years loves me because I’m confident, independent, low maintenance, rarely nag, was or is still a good mother and now grandmother and I still love sex. I love him for the same reasons plus he was incredibly successful and we lead a very comfortable life. If I told him he was awesome he’d say I was pandering and ask what was I up to? I think OPs friends are still in a lala land dream state. Let’s see what they say in 30 years.

I'm the PP and this is pretty much us too. I love how proud DH is of me and what I've accomplished as well. We thank each other for cooking dinner and helping out, but that's just from a level of respect we have for each other. He thanks me when I make dinner and vice versa. We are very much equals which is nice.

Your relationship sounds like a scripted soap opera.

Well we have no drama so soap opera seems like the wrong genre. We are just two very basic laid back people.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Men just wanna be told they’re awesome all the time.

If they take their own plate to the sink, they want to be told good job!

In bed you must pretend they’re the most amazing lay you’ve ever had.

If they tell you something you already know, you have to pretend to be so thankful with all wonder in the world to be impart this knowledge from them.

I mean, it’s pretty simple.

^^ just wants a guy to be her verbal punching bag.

Okay ? Just because I don’t think you for taking YOUR plate to the sink… I’m punching.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Now ask an elderly couple.

This. I rolled my eyes when I saw how old the couple was.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband wants me to be well educated about world news.

Which educated man doesn't want a smart and educated wife for himself and mother for his kids?

[Anonymous]

A good partner?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men just wanna be told they’re awesome all the time.

If they take their own plate to the sink, they want to be told good job!

In bed you must pretend they’re the most amazing lay you’ve ever had.

If they tell you something you already know, you have to pretend to be so thankful with all wonder in the world to be impart this knowledge from them.

I mean, it’s pretty simple.

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