If your husband is flirty with other women

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Anonymous wrote:It should bother you. He is not honoring you.

Now...I don't know if you are giving him what he needs physically...but that is something you will need to figure out.

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Only to the first paragraph.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife always think women are flirting with me but I don't see it? How do I know if a woman is flirting with me while my way is standing right next to me?

Is she focusing on just you, not making eye contact with your wife

My DH is hot, and thinks it’s funny to call women out for this. Example, other woman will say something like wow you’re so interesting! He’ll pull me in front of her and say you know whose interesting, my lovely wife, have you met her? When he knows we met. He thinks making other women uncomfortable is funny. And I find it hot he wants to stake his claim to me

You both have issues for getting your jollies by trying to embarrass others. Maybe your husband really is interesting, and she is just observing g that. But I guess in addition to being weirdos, neither you nor your husband himself, in fact, think he is interesting.

I have to agree with first PP here. If you have your claws out to try to reign in someone else's DH, you deserve to be embarrassed - public embarrassment? Even better! If you go after (even if you don't admit it) someone else's DH - there is nothing to stop one or both members of that couple warning near and far about your uncouth behaviors. Again, you are asking for it. Flirt away! Let the whole community know what a two bit wh*re you are!

I am sure your DH doesn't care who you flirt with, but the entire community gonna care.

If the woman is proposing a quickie to the DH in the bathroom, then absolutely. But telling a man he’s interesting falls short of proof the woman is trying to bed a married man.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife always think women are flirting with me but I don't see it? How do I know if a woman is flirting with me while my way is standing right next to me?

Is she focusing on just you, not making eye contact with your wife

My DH is hot, and thinks it’s funny to call women out for this. Example, other woman will say something like wow you’re so interesting! He’ll pull me in front of her and say you know whose interesting, my lovely wife, have you met her? When he knows we met. He thinks making other women uncomfortable is funny. And I find it hot he wants to stake his claim to me

You both have issues for getting your jollies by trying to embarrass others. Maybe your husband really is interesting, and she is just observing g that. But I guess in addition to being weirdos, neither you nor your husband himself, in fact, think he is interesting.

I have to agree with first PP here. If you have your claws out to try to reign in someone else's DH, you deserve to be embarrassed - public embarrassment? Even better! If you go after (even if you don't admit it) someone else's DH - there is nothing to stop one or both members of that couple warning near and far about your uncouth behaviors. Again, you are asking for it. Flirt away! Let the whole community know what a two bit wh*re you are!

I am sure your DH doesn't care who you flirt with, but the entire community gonna care.

If the woman is proposing a quickie to the DH in the bathroom, then absolutely. But telling a man he’s interesting falls short of proof the woman is trying to bed a married man.

You can try to claim plausible deniability all you want, but know the wife is smarter than you. Local knowledge got nothing on street smarts.

[Anonymous]

No, DH has some guilt and shame around attraction to other women. He tends to not engage that much with pretty women our age or younger. He does turn up the charm with the 60+ crowd though and the women in this age group seem to adore him

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Anonymous wrote:My wife always think women are flirting with me but I don't see it? How do I know if a woman is flirting with me while my way is standing right next to me?

Is she focusing on just you, not making eye contact with your wife

My DH is hot, and thinks it’s funny to call women out for this. Example, other woman will say something like wow you’re so interesting! He’ll pull me in front of her and say you know whose interesting, my lovely wife, have you met her? When he knows we met. He thinks making other women uncomfortable is funny. And I find it hot he wants to stake his claim to me

You both sound a little sociopathic tbh

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Anonymous wrote:My wife always think women are flirting with me but I don't see it? How do I know if a woman is flirting with me while my way is standing right next to me?

Is she focusing on just you, not making eye contact with your wife

My DH is hot, and thinks it’s funny to call women out for this. Example, other woman will say something like wow you’re so interesting! He’ll pull me in front of her and say you know whose interesting, my lovely wife, have you met her? When he knows we met. He thinks making other women uncomfortable is funny. And I find it hot he wants to stake his claim to me

You both sound a little sociopathic tbh

Why ? This IS a man- he is standing up for his wife when another woman is trying to flirt up.
And it’s rare.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a guy friend like this and mainly I’m just embarrassed for him. He has a gorgeous wife he loves and they have two kids but he just keeps the bordering-on-sexual innuendo going all the time. It’s not quite as bad as the PP described her DH up thread but it’s too suggestive. He’s a great guy otherwise but in my opinion just immature.

Mommy and daddy did not give him enough attention. RUN.

I actually think they gave him a little too much attention…

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Anonymous wrote:DH is hysterical, in just about any social gathering he's making comments like "Well somebody's got some junk in the trunk," "Hmmm, that caboose is on the loose," "Thank Gosh we're not in traffic jam or I might Rear-End you," "Bodacious Ta-Tas on Aisle 2!" "If they said you had a beautiful body, would I hold it against you?" and those sort of things. He doesn't mean any harm.

Sarcasm, everyone.

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Anonymous wrote:DH is hysterical, in just about any social gathering he's making comments like "Well somebody's got some junk in the trunk," "Hmmm, that caboose is on the loose," "Thank Gosh we're not in traffic jam or I might Rear-End you," "Bodacious Ta-Tas on Aisle 2!" "If they said you had a beautiful body, would I hold it against you?" and those sort of things. He doesn't mean any harm.

Sarcasm, everyone.

You are the sarcasm. DH is just having fun but we will admit some people (mostly Democrats) do not like it. They need to Git A Life.

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I think of flirting as something well short of "hitting on", much less "trying to pick up". It is hard to define, but I think it is something akin to giving non-sexual compliments in a way that shows special attention without any intention of moving forward.

With that definition in mind, my wife and I both enjoy it when we are together in a social setting with other couples that we know are open to some light hearted flirtation.

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Anonymous wrote:From another perspective, my dad was always flirtatious and inappropriate with other women and it was absolutely mortifying for me. I noticed it from a very young age and it felt uncomfortable and confusing and created some issues with healthy boundaries and relationships for me in my teenage years. Eventually, the behaviors escalated and he cheated with a few close family friends and had a rather lengthy affair with one of my elementary school teachers.

I would not be okay with my spouse doing this and absolutely would never allow that behavior around my children.

Same for my FIL. He also eventually cheated, and all his kids knew about it. One adult child lost all respect for him up until he died, and my spouse still harbors resentment for what their dad put their mother through.

I find flirting in front of your spouse extremely disrespectful.

I found that post intriguing for not including anything about the Mom. Not that he had any responsibility, but the PP was so clear on knowing what the deal was, so did they keep it a secret? scream it from the rooftops? feel tortured? commiserate?

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Anonymous wrote:My wife always think women are flirting with me but I don't see it? How do I know if a woman is flirting with me while my way is standing right next to me?

Is she focusing on just you, not making eye contact with your wife

My DH is hot, and thinks it’s funny to call women out for this. Example, other woman will say something like wow you’re so interesting! He’ll pull me in front of her and say you know whose interesting, my lovely wife, have you met her? When he knows we met. He thinks making other women uncomfortable is funny. And I find it hot he wants to stake his claim to me

You both have issues for getting your jollies by trying to embarrass others. Maybe your husband really is interesting, and she is just observing g that. But I guess in addition to being weirdos, neither you nor your husband himself, in fact, think he is interesting.

I have to agree with first PP here. If you have your claws out to try to reign in someone else's DH, you deserve to be embarrassed - public embarrassment? Even better! If you go after (even if you don't admit it) someone else's DH - there is nothing to stop one or both members of that couple warning near and far about your uncouth behaviors. Again, you are asking for it. Flirt away! Let the whole community know what a two bit wh*re you are!

I am sure your DH doesn't care who you flirt with, but the entire community gonna care.

If the woman is proposing a quickie to the DH in the bathroom, then absolutely. But telling a man he’s interesting falls short of proof the woman is trying to bed a married man.

You can try to claim plausible deniability all you want, but know the wife is smarter than you. Local knowledge got nothing on street smarts.

If you think it’s ok to call another woman a wh@re to your community because she told your husband he’s interesting, you have some very deep issues with other women. It’s 2023, and we don’t go around calling women vile names because you feel threatened by some comment she made. A comment that you can’t prove one way or another.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife always think women are flirting with me but I don't see it? How do I know if a woman is flirting with me while my way is standing right next to me?

Is she focusing on just you, not making eye contact with your wife

My DH is hot, and thinks it’s funny to call women out for this. Example, other woman will say something like wow you’re so interesting! He’ll pull me in front of her and say you know whose interesting, my lovely wife, have you met her? When he knows we met. He thinks making other women uncomfortable is funny. And I find it hot he wants to stake his claim to me

You both have issues for getting your jollies by trying to embarrass others. Maybe your husband really is interesting, and she is just observing g that. But I guess in addition to being weirdos, neither you nor your husband himself, in fact, think he is interesting.

I have to agree with first PP here. If you have your claws out to try to reign in someone else's DH, you deserve to be embarrassed - public embarrassment? Even better! If you go after (even if you don't admit it) someone else's DH - there is nothing to stop one or both members of that couple warning near and far about your uncouth behaviors. Again, you are asking for it. Flirt away! Let the whole community know what a two bit wh*re you are!

I am sure your DH doesn't care who you flirt with, but the entire community gonna care.

If the woman is proposing a quickie to the DH in the bathroom, then absolutely. But telling a man he’s interesting falls short of proof the woman is trying to bed a married man.

You can try to claim plausible deniability all you want, but know the wife is smarter than you. Local knowledge got nothing on street smarts.

If you think it’s ok to call another woman a wh@re to your community because she told your husband he’s interesting, you have some very deep issues with other women. It’s 2023, and we don’t go around calling women vile names because you feel threatened by some comment she made. A comment that you can’t prove one way or another.

No, but your neighbors do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think of flirting as something well short of "hitting on", much less "trying to pick up". It is hard to define, but I think it is something akin to giving non-sexual compliments in a way that shows special attention without any intention of moving forward.

With that definition in mind, my wife and I both enjoy it when we are together in a social setting with other couples that we know are open to some light hearted flirtation.

Yeah, but not all hos (male and female) understand boundaries in that way.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife always think women are flirting with me but I don't see it? How do I know if a woman is flirting with me while my way is standing right next to me?

Is she focusing on just you, not making eye contact with your wife

My DH is hot, and thinks it’s funny to call women out for this. Example, other woman will say something like wow you’re so interesting! He’ll pull me in front of her and say you know whose interesting, my lovely wife, have you met her? When he knows we met. He thinks making other women uncomfortable is funny. And I find it hot he wants to stake his claim to me

You both have issues for getting your jollies by trying to embarrass others. Maybe your husband really is interesting, and she is just observing g that. But I guess in addition to being weirdos, neither you nor your husband himself, in fact, think he is interesting.

I have to agree with first PP here. If you have your claws out to try to reign in someone else's DH, you deserve to be embarrassed - public embarrassment? Even better! If you go after (even if you don't admit it) someone else's DH - there is nothing to stop one or both members of that couple warning near and far about your uncouth behaviors. Again, you are asking for it. Flirt away! Let the whole community know what a two bit wh*re you are!

I am sure your DH doesn't care who you flirt with, but the entire community gonna care.

If the woman is proposing a quickie to the DH in the bathroom, then absolutely. But telling a man he’s interesting falls short of proof the woman is trying to bed a married man.

You can try to claim plausible deniability all you want, but know the wife is smarter than you. Local knowledge got nothing on street smarts.

If you think it’s ok to call another woman a wh@re to your community because she told your husband he’s interesting, you have some very deep issues with other women. It’s 2023, and we don’t go around calling women vile names because you feel threatened by some comment she made. A comment that you can’t prove one way or another.

Except that we can.