sex partners

[Anonymous]

No, 28 years old is getting long in the tooth. 25 is my age cutoff.

[Anonymous]

She sounds like a road well traveled and it might not have been a fun ride psychologically and emotionally. But, if I really liked her I would want to know more about her life. Passing judgement based on a number isn’t fair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She sounds like a road well traveled and it might not have been a fun ride psychologically and emotionally. But, if I really liked her I would want to know more about her life. Passing judgement based on a number isn’t fair.

Definitely rode and well traveled by 60 people.

[Anonymous]

I’ve only had one sex partner and that is my husband. I’m on the opposite end of the 60 person partner spectrum so does that make me a question mark in terms of being a quality partner? She was a virgin at 22, what was wrong with her?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Probably has serious emotional problems and daddy issues.

Would you say that about a male?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had over 300 sex partners of both men and women from the time I started, including my college years before meeting my husband.

I loved the feeling. I was not molested or damaged in any way.

Couple questions: why did you feel you needed experience it with a new man so often ? You were not satisfied/finding what you need sexually, or the variety was getting you off?
And how did you find time to see so many guys ? Went to bars/constantly scheduled several dates online ?

I paid for my college as a highly paid courtesan. Probably four dates a week over four years of college. This doesn’t include my formative years of exploration.

I happen to enjoy the product that comes from sexual activity quite a bit.

You can either always have #14 on the lunch menu of your favorite Thai restaurant or you can sample the entire menu. Some you like, some you loathe and some are worth repeating.

My husband I love and lust and am in a different place today than I was then. The body has an amazing ability to cleanse itself.

No diseases or STDs. Not even Mono.

His disgusting. You were engaging in a prostitution (did you work for a call service ?) , and proud of it, and your body “cleansed”.
Morality is defined by laws which make this business illegal in many jurisdictions

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People that have sex with more than 60 partners in a fairly short period of time do so for lots of reasons. But good sex is rarely one of them. You might get lucky here and there, but most people seem to like having a connection and genuinely getting to know someone. It's a new, fun journey with every partner.

In this particular instance, I'd be concerned that she might feel the need to use men to feel validated. She needs the attention. Promiscuity is also a very common response to trauma, where the value and importance of sex needs to be diminished. I'd wonder about judgement and impulse. Hypersexuality sometimes manifests itself in people with ADHD. She might be running with a general dopamine deficit that compels her to engage in higher risk behavior. She may have difficulty former attachments. There are a million reasons people choose to do what they do.

And if you're not comfortable with it, you can check out. People definitely need to be on the same page when it comes to sex and what they value. And if you're not feeling it, you're not feeling it. Don't know why anyone would bother ever asking anyone how many partners they'e been with. It never goes anywhere good.

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[Anonymous]

Probably has serious emotional problems and daddy issues.

Would you say that about a male?

What are you talking about? It is much easier for a woman to be promiscuous than it is for a man.

A man with 60+ partners (assuming he did not pay for any of them) is likely to be near the top 1% of desirability since most women are more discriminating (except the women like the one who is the subject of this thread).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had over 300 sex partners of both men and women from the time I started, including my college years before meeting my husband.

I loved the feeling. I was not molested or damaged in any way.

Couple questions: why did you feel you needed experience it with a new man so often ? You were not satisfied/finding what you need sexually, or the variety was getting you off?
And how did you find time to see so many guys ? Went to bars/constantly scheduled several dates online ?

I paid for my college as a highly paid courtesan. Probably four dates a week over four years of college. This doesn’t include my formative years of exploration.

I happen to enjoy the product that comes from sexual activity quite a bit.

You can either always have #14 on the lunch menu of your favorite Thai restaurant or you can sample the entire menu. Some you like, some you loathe and some are worth repeating.

My husband I love and lust and am in a different place today than I was then. The body has an amazing ability to cleanse itself.

No diseases or STDs. Not even Mono.

His disgusting. You were engaging in a prostitution (did you work for a call service ?) , and proud of it, and your body “cleansed”.
Morality is defined by laws which make this business illegal in many jurisdictions

How judgemental! What you call prostitution, I call modeling. Perform in a porn film, modeling, get paid to have sex: prostitution.

What you gave away in college for free; I got paid for and paid well.

I booked all of my own appointments via referrals.

Yes the body cleanses itself. I was always safe and I had fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had over 300 sex partners of both men and women from the time I started, including my college years before meeting my husband.

I loved the feeling. I was not molested or damaged in any way.

Couple questions: why did you feel you needed experience it with a new man so often ? You were not satisfied/finding what you need sexually, or the variety was getting you off?
And how did you find time to see so many guys ? Went to bars/constantly scheduled several dates online ?

I paid for my college as a highly paid courtesan. Probably four dates a week over four years of college. This doesn’t include my formative years of exploration.

I happen to enjoy the product that comes from sexual activity quite a bit.

You can either always have #14 on the lunch menu of your favorite Thai restaurant or you can sample the entire menu. Some you like, some you loathe and some are worth repeating.

My husband I love and lust and am in a different place today than I was then. The body has an amazing ability to cleanse itself.

No diseases or STDs. Not even Mono.

His disgusting. You were engaging in a prostitution (did you work for a call service ?) , and proud of it, and your body “cleansed”.
Morality is defined by laws which make this business illegal in many jurisdictions

How judgemental! What you call prostitution, I call modeling. Perform in a porn film, modeling, get paid to have sex: prostitution.

What you gave away in college for free; I got paid for and paid well.

I booked all of my own appointments via referrals.

Yes the body cleanses itself. I was always safe and I had fun.

Exchanging sex for money is prostitution. And you reveal your true attitude to sex as something women “give out” can leverage in exchange for valuables from men. You couldn’t possibly enjoy sex with older, fat farts who paid you.
I dated for 3 years and got married at 25. I worked and made a fortune with my husband (who has a PhD), and we both paid for our college education without using our genitalia. My sexual acts with him were for free and in a context of a loving relationship.
How dare you comparing working women with the likes of you!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Probably has serious emotional problems and daddy issues.

Would you say that about a male?

What are you talking about? It is much easier for a woman to be promiscuous than it is for a man.

A man with 60+ partners (assuming he did not pay for any of them) is likely to be near the top 1% of desirability since most women are more discriminating (except the women like the one who is the subject of this thread).

People always make this argument and I don't understand the point.
If you say that it's the number that's disgusting, then it should apply the same to a man with the same number.

But apparently it's actually about skill or effort because a man with 60 partners must have great game or whatever.
So is it less disgusting for an ugly woman to have had 60 partners than a beautiful woman to have had 60, because it was less easy? Is this really about rewarding effort? And if it is, then anyone who has anything that came easily to them is disgusting?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had over 300 sex partners of both men and women from the time I started, including my college years before meeting my husband.

I loved the feeling. I was not molested or damaged in any way.

Couple questions: why did you feel you needed experience it with a new man so often ? You were not satisfied/finding what you need sexually, or the variety was getting you off?
And how did you find time to see so many guys ? Went to bars/constantly scheduled several dates online ?

I paid for my college as a highly paid courtesan. Probably four dates a week over four years of college. This doesn’t include my formative years of exploration.

I happen to enjoy the product that comes from sexual activity quite a bit.

You can either always have #14 on the lunch menu of your favorite Thai restaurant or you can sample the entire menu. Some you like, some you loathe and some are worth repeating.

My husband I love and lust and am in a different place today than I was then. The body has an amazing ability to cleanse itself.

No diseases or STDs. Not even Mono.

His disgusting. You were engaging in a prostitution (did you work for a call service ?) , and proud of it, and your body “cleansed”.
Morality is defined by laws which make this business illegal in many jurisdictions

How judgemental! What you call prostitution, I call modeling. Perform in a porn film, modeling, get paid to have sex: prostitution.

What you gave away in college for free; I got paid for and paid well.

I booked all of my own appointments via referrals.

Yes the body cleanses itself. I was always safe and I had fun.

A sex worker with a healthy view of female sexuality would never refer to someone having sex as giving something away.
Sorry, but you've outed yourself as a troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had over 300 sex partners of both men and women from the time I started, including my college years before meeting my husband.

I loved the feeling. I was not molested or damaged in any way.

Couple questions: why did you feel you needed experience it with a new man so often ? You were not satisfied/finding what you need sexually, or the variety was getting you off?
And how did you find time to see so many guys ? Went to bars/constantly scheduled several dates online ?

I paid for my college as a highly paid courtesan. Probably four dates a week over four years of college. This doesn’t include my formative years of exploration.

I happen to enjoy the product that comes from sexual activity quite a bit.

You can either always have #14 on the lunch menu of your favorite Thai restaurant or you can sample the entire menu. Some you like, some you loathe and some are worth repeating.

My husband I love and lust and am in a different place today than I was then. The body has an amazing ability to cleanse itself.

No diseases or STDs. Not even Mono.

His disgusting. You were engaging in a prostitution (did you work for a call service ?) , and proud of it, and your body “cleansed”.
Morality is defined by laws which make this business illegal in many jurisdictions

How judgemental! What you call prostitution, I call modeling. Perform in a porn film, modeling, get paid to have sex: prostitution.

What you gave away in college for free; I got paid for and paid well.

I booked all of my own appointments via referrals.

Yes the body cleanses itself. I was always safe and I had fun.

Exchanging sex for money is prostitution. And you reveal your true attitude to sex as something women “give out” can leverage in exchange for valuables from men. You couldn’t possibly enjoy sex with older, fat farts who paid you.
I dated for 3 years and got married at 25. I worked and made a fortune with my husband (who has a PhD), and we both paid for our college education without using our genitalia. My sexual acts with him were for free and in a context of a loving relationship.
How dare you comparing working women with the likes of you!

Please keep your anti-choice views to yourself on what a woman does with her body!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Probably has serious emotional problems and daddy issues.

Would you say that about a male?

What are you talking about? It is much easier for a woman to be promiscuous than it is for a man.

A man with 60+ partners (assuming he did not pay for any of them) is likely to be near the top 1% of desirability since most women are more discriminating (except the women like the one who is the subject of this thread).

People always make this argument and I don't understand the point.
If you say that it's the number that's disgusting, then it should apply the same to a man with the same number.

But apparently it's actually about skill or effort because a man with 60 partners must have great game or whatever.
So is it less disgusting for an ugly woman to have had 60 partners than a beautiful woman to have had 60, because it was less easy? Is this really about rewarding effort? And if it is, then anyone who has anything that came easily to them is disgusting?

Men in general are more promiscuous as they risk less (infections, pregnancy, public opinion), and they pay for sex. Directly or indirectly, through control over resources.
As a woman, I’m equally disgusted by men with 60+ partners. These guys wouldn’t be my playing field if I were dating

[Anonymous]

I’d date her. No judgment on my part. She loves sex and the two of us would have a lot of fun. I’ve always really enjoyed the company of a woman who is unapologetically sexual and uninhibited. Nothing better in the bedroom.