My God, your casual brutality about this would stun even Hobbes. PP, I am so sorry for your loss. This poster’s total failure as a human is not where the average person around you is coming from at all. May you be well care for in your grief by people who are not mouthing off on the internet from their basements. |
You can’t schedule vacation time the same morning. Can’t afford a caregiver, and no spouse. Fact is, I have kids. |
Nope. This poster is all over these boards blaming people for giving her parent Covid. Sorry but older people die. That’s life. |
PP is grieving. What is your reason for needing to repeat yourself over and over? |
Something is seriously off with you. How would you feel if it were your parent? |
Sick leave is different from vacation and that can be schedule same day. Then, you have to reach out to friends, family or community. Its unfair to make many others sick because you refuse to stay home with your kids and not use your leave for when they are sick. |
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This thread is off the rails. It’s so disappointing that people are so callous about the health of others.
Teachers, I support you and think you deserve more leave. However, I hope you can find a way to stay home for 5 days rather than spread COVID to immune compromised kids and adults who may be sharing the building. Is it possible to take leave without pay? Parents, part of being a parent is knowing kids get sick and you need to be there for them. It’s inconvenient and a hardship but it goes with the territory. Split time off with your spouse or co-parent. See if you can work from home (most people seem to still be doing that). If your child is in MS or HS, let them stay home alone. Please, do not send sick kids to school whether with COVID or anything else. It causes a domino effect where multiple classmates get ill and now you’ve just put fellow parents in the position you complained about. Flu, COVID, stomach bugs - sick kids belong at home. COVID isn’t as dangerous as it once was but it is still dangerous to a segment of the community. And really it’s just common courtesy. |
Perfect. I don’t think you should stay home for 5+ days if you’re feeling fine. |
DP, it’s true though. And you seem to be acknowledging that some people can’t think rationally when their family is involved. |
It’s not like 20 years ago. Most allergists aren’t going to do a broad scratch test to identify allergies if it’s not going to practically change treatment. They’ll test for allergies that might be serious, and otherwise just tell you to try OTC meds if they’re not that bad. My kids were only formally diagnosed with egg allergies, but certainly have a variety of seasonal allergies. Or maybe they’ve just had covid since they were toddlers, 5 years before China discovered it. |
Way more people die of covid than flu. Stop parroting unhelpful talking points |
Do you use seatbelts? Airbags? Drive the speed limit? Obey traffic lights? Use car seats? Layered mitigation does wonders. We are g doing the same for covid |
Look at the recent covid death rate and compare it to influenza deaths in winter months. Before covid, did you lock yourself down in the winter? Wear masks? Or did you instead go Christmas shopping and attend holiday parties? |
1. More people die of covid than influenza 2. Influenza is seasonal covid is not yet seasonal 3. Who said anything about locking down? We are discussing staying home when ill. And yes I was cautious in flu months. That’s what a double lung transplant due to LAM does to you |
We'll see what the winter surge brings, but I'm not sure this is the case anymore. The weekly death total over the last 4 months is lower than an average flu year. Now granted we are talking about summer, but the weekly covid death rate summer 2022 was 7-10x higher than it was this summer and covid has surged in the summer because of travel, gatherings etc |