OMG!! I'm forgiving but that would earn a total ban! |
I got sick at a party because I discovered too late that there wasn’t a single thing I could eat (celiac) at the party. It was a hard lesson to learn (embarrassing!). I don’t drink at parties now. |
| Not cleaning up, or at least attempting to, would earn a ban. It’s disgusting and thoughtless and even cruel, to make someone clean up your s**t and puke (unless someone is legitimately ill and did not have the capacity to do it). Drunkenness does not excuse it - still banned. |
You know by the company you keep. I don't have friends that behave that way. I recently went to a party though of a new friend and I was shocked that the adults and these are parents of teens were all wasted, smoking pot out in the open and I would not be surprised if some were doing other things. Nice people but definitely not our people. I could easily see someone at that party getting sick in the bathroom and puking. |
| I would likely feel badly for them rather than upset. They either had an unusually bad night and are now mortified, which I can sympathize with, or they have a drinking problem that is visibly interfering with their social interactions. Some people are really good at hiding their substance abuse problems, and if that’s what they’re dealing with, I’d hope that puking at the party is getting them closer to seeking help. |
I hover but I don’t leave poop on the walls. |
Gross. I have never smeared poop on any walls. |
| How do you know they're drunk? I threw up at a restaurant at the table. I wasn't drunk but was pregnant and didn't know. |
notice how you didnt say: i dont get poop on the walls nor did you say you dont get pee everywhere. Unless you have a device that creates a seamless curtain between your a$$ and the toilet bowl then yes, you likely do get stuff places. Maybe not visible to the naked eye or repeated multiple times throughout the space but its there. And if you have any type of fart poo or looser stools or jackson pollack poo then you most definitely get it outside of the toilet bowl. Same with men who pee standing and who shake their penis versus dabbing with tissue. The greater the distance from the bowl the more splash and the more splatter. Sit on the toilet as designed or dont use it. |
| No big deal. It doesn’t happen anymore now that I’m older but this happened to my SIL after she had her second baby. She had like 3 glasses of wine but it hit her hard and she threw up. I felt terrible for her and I don’t think any less of her, it wasn’t intentional. |
Sorry but I’m not getting any fungal disease or whatever from sitting in a toilet that is not my own |
then dont use toilets that arent your own! making everyone else deal with your nasty spray- which is real and highly probable- versus you having to deal with "catching" something from a toilet seat- which is highly improbable. I hope you are as protective of your coochie and mouth with your partners, and therefore ALWAYS use condoms even with long-term partners including condoms when receiving oral- as you are obsessed with keeping your skin from catching toilet seat fungal infections. |
Fungal disease? What kind of friends do you have? Do you live in the jungle? This is by no means a normal assessment of the situation. You have some serious issues. |
Get over it. I hover and clean any droplets. [NP] |
You are super weird, PP. |