Would you be upset if someone became inebriated and puked in your bathroom during a party?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't host that sort of party, OP. So... it depends how much responsibility you want to take on as host of such a party, and also what sort of person the puker is. Are they an alcoholic? A new drinker? Should you have expected it and told them not to drink that much? If they had puked from an anaphylactic reaction to a food, would you feel as annoyed?

Well, how do you know when it might become "that" sort of a party? One too many fine wines and someone can become nauseated.

Wait is that a thing w fine wines? I recently had this happen to me at a party serving very old, fine (and delicious) wine. I had to vomit but was discreet and no one found out and quickly told my spouse we needed to leave. Hadn’t had that happen since my 20s.

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Anonymous wrote:Did they clean it? I would be upset if they didn’t. Similarly, those of you who have poop blowouts in the bathroom during a party and leave it all over the walls and towels and floors and don’t clean up are nasty.

Does this really happen? Who are you all in DCUM land hanging out with??!

Yes this happens. I’ve had guests spend 40 min in our powder room blowing out the toilet, leaving remnants everywhere and all over. And just walking out without a care in the world.

Are these pineapple/grey rock parties?

What on earth is a grey rock party? I have only ever heard this term as a supposed method for dealing with difficult people.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did they clean it? I would be upset if they didn’t. Similarly, those of you who have poop blowouts in the bathroom during a party and leave it all over the walls and towels and floors and don’t clean up are nasty.

Does this really happen? Who are you all in DCUM land hanging out with??!

Yes this happens. I’ve had guests spend 40 min in our powder room blowing out the toilet, leaving remnants everywhere and all over. And just walking out without a care in the world.

How does the poop get on the walls and floor and towels? I don’t even understand this. We’ve had stomach bugs rip through our house and not have poop splattered.

think these are the people who squat over the toilet. they refuse to entertain sitting down on a toilet that is not in their home.

I hate them in public spaces and in private ones.

[Anonymous]

I would definitely not make it a big thing or get mad if someone threw up. I’m sure they would be embarrassed and I would feel for them.

If someone pooped all over the bathroom getting it on floors, walls, and towels I would be horrified and I would not invite them back.

I’ve never encountered the second scenario, fortunately.

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Anonymous wrote:Did they clean it? I would be upset if they didn’t. Similarly, those of you who have poop blowouts in the bathroom during a party and leave it all over the walls and towels and floors and don’t clean up are nasty.

Does this really happen? Who are you all in DCUM land hanging out with??!

Yes this happens. I’ve had guests spend 40 min in our powder room blowing out the toilet, leaving remnants everywhere and all over. And just walking out without a care in the world.

How does the poop get on the walls and floor and towels? I don’t even understand this. We’ve had stomach bugs rip through our house and not have poop splattered.

think these are the people who squat over the toilet. they refuse to entertain sitting down on a toilet that is not in their home.

I hate them in public spaces and in private ones.

Ooooo, that makes sense. Another reason people shouldn’t do this! (It’s also terrible for your pelvic floor.)

[Anonymous]

If nothing got on the floor and everything in the toilet, then no.

Sounds like a fun time!

[Anonymous]

I’ve never once checked the walls after pooping. And now I’m worried I’m one of the people leaving poop on the walls. From now on, I’ll inspect to make sure it all got in the toilet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. I’d feel bad for them, that’s embarrassing. I wouldn’t make a big thing of it

+1 I'm humiliated that I did this once. I was drinking a punch and just had no appreciation or idea of the amount of liquor in it.

[Anonymous]

If it were a friend, I would just forgive them, clean up and move on. We all make mistakes. Nobody pukes on purpose and if this happened to one of my friends it would be a bad or stupid night, not a regular thing.

[Anonymous]

It depends. Are you sure they were drunk and it wasn't just them getting sick from something else? Were they downing liquor or did they have three glasses of wine and it unexpectedly proved too much? Did they make a mess? Did you serve plenty of food?

[Anonymous]

It wouldn’t bother me. I don’t drink much now, but I used to, so I have been there and I get it. Being that we’re all about 40 I might be a tiny bit annoyed, but…whatever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It depends. Are you sure they were drunk and it wasn't just them getting sick from something else? Were they downing liquor or did they have three glasses of wine and it unexpectedly proved too much? Did they make a mess? Did you serve plenty of food?

+1

Also, did they maybe mix seafood and liquor, oblivious to the ramifications?

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Anonymous wrote:Did they clean it? I would be upset if they didn’t. Similarly, those of you who have poop blowouts in the bathroom during a party and leave it all over the walls and towels and floors and don’t clean up are nasty.

Does this really happen? Who are you all in DCUM land hanging out with??!

Yes this happens. I’ve had guests spend 40 min in our powder room blowing out the toilet, leaving remnants everywhere and all over. And just walking out without a care in the world.

Are these pineapple/grey rock parties?

I think it’s white rocks not grey, at least where I live.

[Anonymous]

I would not be upset if it was cleaned up. In my experience there are two flavors of this:

- People who just had a bad reaction - they were sick and didn't know it, they drank too much too fast in the hot sun, new medication, etc. As soon as this happens they probably make their way home to recover and most people are none the wiser.

- People who were obnoxiously drunk and the puking was probably the least of the bad or annoying behavior. The puke itself would be the cost of doing business but likely it was accompanied by other stuff that would make me not want to invite this person again

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lets just say they wouldn't be invited again. Dh and I are not a fan of people who are sloppy.

Are you one person?