You still have a “roommate”: your spouse. So housing would be $1000/month. And maybe you move to PA or the south. |
+1. And remember, you are not privy to all their financial information. You may assume they don't have the money to blow but there might be another revenue stream, trust fund, inheritance or other windfall you know nothing about. M physician thinks our DH makes close to what he does but he is off a zero and I don't care to educate him. |
You realize millennials are over 40 now? Who is living with roommates past the age of 30? |
People who made poor financial & life choices. But, you do what you need to do to survive. If that means roommates, so be it. |
Some millennials think they’re too good to live in a lower COL area. Not everyone gets to live in NYC. |
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I'm a single mother with a take home pay of about $4000 a month after taxes.
Our rent will be $2000 a month. Phone, internet and car insurance is another $200 total. We live well on $1800 a month. While I'm not millennial, I got a very late start in going to school (at 30), building a career (never did), and investing because I was illegal the first ca 10-12 years after moving here. I got my papers right when financial crises hit in 2007-2009. Illegal meant that I couldn't go to school, I couldn't easily change jobs, I was often underpaid and overworked. 4 restaurants didn't even bother to pay the $2.77 an hour and/or pay up to meet the DC minimum wage. Not sure if it was the law back in a day. Not being able to invest or buy a home really bothered me. I had been homeless before and all I wanted to do is to make sure it wouldn't happen again. Saving $400-$500 a month and not investing it, wasn't going to do it. Once I got my papers, all extra money monthly went into real estate and market. I'm not touching any of it and it has grown a lot. I may be able to stop working soon and all this never making more than $4000 a month and in ca 15 years. I made many mistakes, but learned a lot. not buying any real estate unless it's for living. Market grew so much faster than real estate because of the timing and location. For young people, let's stop telling them that them market grows 8-10%, because it seems discouraging. Just put some in an index fund (inside Roth ) and a little in high growth. Make it a bill you got to pay. Wait to upgrade car and home. Couple of years of that is a lot of help.Why parents don't teach their kids all that, I don't know. Maybe they don't listen. Maybe they are waiting for inheritance. Schools won't because world wants them to spend money. Parents are pushing for higher education which costs a lot. Even they don't see the value of investing the money in the market vs education (can do both). And even if they do, it's in that lousy 529 plan pushed by the companies. Just a little bit of financial education goes a long way. So does life experience, but why not use the one parents have so kids don't waste their time on it. |
The youngest millennials were born in 1996 so a fair number still in their late twenties and thirties. |
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I mean millennials are 27 to 42.
At 27 I was a poor grad student. At 38 I have a net worth over $1 million. So I don't know this is that alarming, frankly. Given millennials survived the housing market crash which lead to an employment crash, COVID, etc all with record levels of college debt. |
Yes, its the fault of parents. We lived frugally and far below our means for years to save money for college for our kids. All of this on one salary, as I am a SAHM. We were able to save for prepaid tuition for in-state public colleges. Our kids excelled in academics and got merit aid which made the college basically free for them. By that time we had moved from LMC to UMC and would not get any need based aid. Our kids have more advantages than we have. They have a home base and parents who can feed and house them. We are immigrants who had nothing and we were poor. Are these poor millennials recent immigrants like us? No family in the US? Nobody to fall back on? I guess not. So, they need to live frugally and save money. No eating out, group housing, taking public transportation...until they have some savings. My kids know that they do not have a choice but to live at home because they are also making 80K at their first job. |
And that is why people are poor. Most people do not care. So they go into debt to impress the small minority that does care. |
You do realize that though millennials are the highest college completers so far, less than half attend college let alone graduate school? |
Uhh your kids are adults & can live wherever the h*ll want. And of course someone making $80k can afford to live somewhere besides their parents house. |
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We live “paycheck to paycheck” after 529, savings, med school student loans, HSA, taxes and more savings. |
After savings doesn't count. Aaaaah! |
Is this a joke? I'm an immigrant and live in Northern Virginia, in a paid off house. |