Glad your kids got to live for free in a major metro area after college, in commuting distance to high-paying jobs. They also had grad school savings that they didn’t save for themselves. Most people don’t have those advantages, due to no fault of their own. |
At least with the house they will get the money back. |
| Rent costs $2500-3000 per mo. A modest Honda is gonna set you back $400-500 per mo. We aren’t even covering childcare, health expenses, and utilities that keep going up. Food prices keep going up and up and up. You will feel poor on a $120k salary these days. |
You realize the median income is below that, right? |
If you’re childless you should be living with roommate(s) so halve that rent per person. If you live in most parts of DC, Arlington, Alexandria and Bethesda you don’t need a car (I lived without one for years in two of those places). |
Not everyone can afford to live in a trendy, desirable major city. Some people will have to move. They’ll survive. If you have a portable career like teacher or nurse you can get a job anywhere, and if you have a corporate desk job you have WFH so you might only need to come in once a week. You commute from Baltimore County once a week. No big deal. |
Yes, most people did something very wrong. |
Chose wrong parents. |
You're an idiot. Apartments in Columbia, MD are $2000-3000 per mo. Many apartment complexes in Baltimore county run $2000+ per mo. Neither of those are swanky cities. How long exactly have you had your head up your ass? You sound like you're living in 2003 dollars. |
You live with roommates if you’re childless. |
The savings rate in Japan is only 2.4%. They don’t have a retirement account system like we do and their stock market hasn’t been doing well the last few decades. Median household income is only $46k USD vs $67k in the USA |
And after you have children and are paying $2000/month for the apartment and $2000/month/child for childcare? |
So are you saying married couples need roommates if they are childless? |
But not anyone on DCUM |
If they’re not high earning or wealthy, they may. |