So, what you think other schools don’t have smart kids whose parents valve academics? Go to Whitman. Lots of folks think like you and better for the rest of us not to have our kids exposed to people like you. |
OP here - did you even read my post? Or read it carefully? I stated that 1. school has to be strong. 2. Has to be relatively close to DC/ downtown (but in MD). Pls suggest alternatives then, since it seems you are not satisfied with my potential choices. |
Nope, BCC is the wealthiest. |
Good, keep on pretending that you don’t have to make a choice at some point. Or you can go on stewing forever that your school will change, therefore never pick a school and stay home. |
Based on what measure? |
+1 I am not sure what PP (above the immediate quote) thinks the definition of segregation is, but this is literally class-based segregation. |
NP. I'm also a single mom, well-educated, working one of those prestigious but not incredibly lucrative jobs, with bilingual kids. Here's the thing - you think you are like the Whitman moms because of all of the above, but they don't. They see your lack of a partner, and your not-rich-by-DC-standards condo or small SFH, and they make assumptions about how well your kids are supervised, what kind of influence you are, whether you are "bringing men home," and whether you can really afford to live there or whether you'll be gone a year from now and your kids' friendships aren't worth investing in. But, sure, give it a shot. If it doesn't work out, look at some schools that are just as convenient but not as "good" by the metric of mean test scores. You'll find plenty of families like yours and lots of motivated and smart kids. |
Pyle and Whitman definitely fit your criteria (as do all the Bethesda area schools for all your criteria other than proximity to DC), and I think your kids will enjoy their school experience. My DS is having a great time at Pyle, with none of the middle school angst or bullying I recall from that age. I’m partial to 20817 and West Bethesda, but you really can’t go wrong. |
hi PP, no, I do not think I am like the Whitman Moms, therefore my post and question. I already have the experience and I know what it is like. That's my dilemma. Which other schools are you referring to please? |
You're the one pretending that you get to "choose a school"; I'm trying to educate people that you don't actually choose a school, you choose a place to live that, as of now, sends kids to a particular school but that will change. So, if I'm a single Mom with limited resources to pay for housing, I might want to take a look at the school boundary map so that I don't stretch my budget to live in a particular school cluster, only to have it switched on me 2 years later. Maybe the house that's located more centrally within the cluster would be a better choice, since that's less likely to be redistricted. Since when is making informed decisions "staying home and never picking a school". |
| OP, you may be able to rent a small house in bounds for Pyle/Whitman for about the same price as a condo rental. I have known people who have done so. |
Op here - hi PP, are BCC and Whitman also affected by this boundary change plan? my kids will enter middle school next August, i.e. August 2023. Thanks. |
OP here - thanks PP; I always look and houses rent for $ 4-6K per month. Condos rent for $ 2.5-3.5K per month. |
These schools are all about the same. They have the same curriculum and teachers. Sure, there are some demographic differences but the same kid will do exactly the same at any of them. |
Whitman is not close to downtown so your post makes no sense. BCC or the down county schools make far more sense for commute. Strong school is subjective. You are really looking for rich schools. |