Over 40 and married do you wax completely “down there”?

[Anonymous]

Just curious. I know younger women do and many divorced women over 40.

[Anonymous]

I rarely take it all off. DH has a cultural preference for a full bush. Our compromise is I trim the mound short and wax the bikini areas.

This is my second marriage. My first husband really disliked completely hairless. He said it made him feel like a pedophile.

[Anonymous]

Shave all but a landing strip. 56 and married.

[Anonymous]

Hell no, 44.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hell no, 44.

+1, Age 41. I didn't do that when I was unmarried either. Life is too short to do something that painful on purpose.

[Anonymous]

No, but I never did take it all off. Close trim only.

[Anonymous]

Mid-thirties, no grooming. Not very hairy though

[Anonymous]

Landing strip.

[Anonymous]

Trimmed. DH seems very happy.

Brazilian once. Was so irritated that I was out of commission for days.

[Anonymous]

I would like to wax, but I'm too afraid of the pain and it seems too expensive.

[Anonymous]

I am divorced and over 40 and I do not and never plan to

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I rarely take it all off. DH has a cultural preference for a full bush. Our compromise is I trim the mound short and wax the bikini areas.

This is my second marriage. My first husband really disliked completely hairless. He said it made him feel like a pedophile.

Mine also mentioned the pedophile thing.

[Anonymous]

Hell no

42, single, and I've had guys express relief that I have hair.

It's there for a reason. It traps bacteria so it doesn't go straight to your vagina or urethra. It prevents chafing. It's not healthy to wax it.

I do shave on the bikini line. But to shave or wax the actual labia? Why??

[Anonymous]

No, but I never did. I keep myself groomed, shaved, and trimmed down there and that's all I need. DH doesn't like completely hairless, and that's a good thing because I have no wish to be waxing it.

[Anonymous]

I am an expert waxer and I wax myself at home. I love being hairless (clean, smooth, more sensations) and I love the convenience of doing it at home. I use hard wax and do very small areas at a time, so it is not painful, The only time it was painful was when I got it done at a salon. It was painful, embarrassing, expensive, inconvenient and resulted in huge amount of ingrown hair. It was a complete and utter mess.

My DH has not mentioned what he prefers, and I basically do it for myself.