| My new girlfriend of 3 months still won’t spend the night. We are both adults ( early 30’s) and exclusive. We go out on dates, have sex, but then she leaves a little while after. I know she is into me, but if sucks. I want to share the intimacy of sleeping together, and morning sex is always good. I don’t know if she’s not that interested or maybe too worried about hygiene? |
| So go spend the night at her house. |
| She' trying not to be clingy. Have you told her you'd like her to stay? |
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Maybe she has trouble sharing beds with people.
Do you snore? |
| Have you asked her to? |
| Also, have you offered to let her leave toiletries and some clothes at your place? |
| Have you asked her about it? What does she say? |
| No thanks for morning sex. |
| Maybe she’s a light sleeper or tosses around a lot. I know I’m like that and sharing a bed is hard for me...one of us isn’t going to sleep well. Just talk to her and let her know how you feel. |
| You have to ask her. There are countless possibilities. |
| Maybe she wets the bed |
| Pooping in front of a new boyfriend is terrifying. |
This. |
Are you 15? Everyone poops. |
| Classic male behavior. Perhaps she's a commitmentphobe, and like so men, she simply needs to escape the claustrophobia of post-coital expectations. |