Girlfriend Won’t Spend The Night..

[Anonymous]

Maybe she snores? Talks in her sleep?

[Anonymous]

Going home to her husband.

[Anonymous]

OP here. We are committed and she doesn’t have a husband. I have invited her many times, but she has never taken me up on it. She had napped at my house but that’s it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We are committed and she doesn’t have a husband. I have invited her many times, but she has never taken me up on it. She had napped at my house but that’s it.

Just let it go. Maybe she thinks it is too soon?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We are committed and she doesn’t have a husband. I have invited her many times, but she has never taken me up on it. She had napped at my house but that’s it.

So talk to her about it. Ask her if she feels uncomfortable spending the night at your place, because you want her to feel welcome. Even if the reason is something that has nothing to do with you personally, it's an opening to discuss what's really going on.

[Anonymous]

What's up with her place - have you slept over there?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We are committed and she doesn’t have a husband. I have invited her many times, but she has never taken me up on it. She had napped at my house but that’s it.

Just let it go. Maybe she thinks it is too soon?

Does she have a pet she has to get home to in order to feed? Maybe someone made fun of how much she farts in her sleep and now she's self-conscious about it. Maybe she loves wearing her New Kids on the Block t-shirt to bed and is worried you'll make fun.

[Anonymous]

She's married.

[Anonymous]

Have you tried sleeping over at her place? What's your living arrangement like? Roommates? Is your place nice or a frat house environment? Is your bathroom clean? Do you have a coffee maker? Have you made her feel at home at her place or do you insist on getting her everything from the kitchen rather than letting her help herself?

[Anonymous]

You get to have sex and she leaves.

Then you can watch tv, sleep in peace, etc

What’s the issue again?

[Anonymous]

She’s not trying to give you all of the benefits of having a live in girlfriend.
Honestly “sleepovers” in adult years suck because it’s an inconvenience at times with work schedules and not having all of the luxuries of the comfortable from your own home. I think she’s honestly waiting till the proposal then she’ll start spending the night.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Classic male behavior. Perhaps she's a commitmentphobe, and like so men, she simply needs to escape the claustrophobia of post-coital expectations.

What a sexist jerk you are.

[Anonymous]

She is cheating on her BF or DH with you. See if you get hack her phone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Pooping in front of a new boyfriend is terrifying.

This.

Are you 15? Everyone poops.

[b]I refused to poop until I got engaged to DH. Since I’m a morning pooper I would leave in the early morning because I knew I had to poop by a certain time.[b]

[Anonymous]

Ask her! I dated one guy who lived in an upper floor condo that was always too warm. I could never sleep. I stayed the night anyway, but usually regretted it when I was exhausted the next day.