Way to grossly misuse the term resilience. Maybe talk to some people who grew up taking a long bus ride to Oakton. Many do not speak of the experience fondly. What parents want and what kids value are not always the same. I bet you don't even ask your kids what they would prefer. Grown adults of parents like this have some interesting things to say about their parents. |
Sigh, if they want to move our kids around like pawns without regard to their mental health, they’ll at least have to get a handle on the safety issues that are a real concern at many of the high schools. |
DP, my kids prefer to eat candy for dinner, so I’m not quite sure I see your point. |
My kids like long bus ride because they can play video games |
I am sad for your kids that you would equate these two things. |
Someone failed the marshmallow test, perhaps? |
It seems like there is so much grandfathering/phasing and opting in/out going on that the "move our kids around like pawns" argument falls flat anymore. Seems like most changes are reassignments of where kids will go in the future at this point. And seriously, what magic place do you come from where no schools change boundaries ever? How do you expect adjustments to ever be made without moving anyone? |
Please volunteer your kid to go to a school with recent death threats and a drive-by. We’ll pass, thank you, even if it’ll only be in the future that kids will be forced to go there. |
Oh the irony that you are mentioning that test. I might know a thing or two about it. Vastly more than you. A long bus ride every day that cuts into a child's sleep, family, and homework time is in no way some sort of exercise in delayed gratification predicting later executive functioning skills. |
DP, were you the author of the middle eastern college student transportation study that FCPS shared with BRAC at its first meeting? You know, the one that directly contradicted the premise that long bus rides led to worse outcomes? You can’t honestly sit there with a straight face and claim that a child’s life will be worse with a longer bus ride then pretend that switching schools and communities will have no effect whatsoever on the kids’ mental health. |
Good thing for you that you have at least 5 years until the next review to move away from such a dangerous place so you won't be assigned to go to school there. |
I have no idea what you are talking about, but it is generally not a good idea to rely on a single study to make any conclusions. Sounds like that study wasn't the same population anyway, which limits generalizability to high schoolers and younger. Regarding your second point, it doesn't sound like anyone will have to switch schools to go to Western HS. If the school is close to home, and you attend it with elementary school peers, it's by definition in your community. You can't decide Waples Mill is your community but Oak Hill is not when you live right in between the two and know darn well your kids do activities with kids from both schools. |
That's not quite right. The issue is that the new school is going to be perceived as comparable to something similar to Fairfax HS and a tad shy of Chantilly HS, because of the lower-income kids from Coates and McNair, and that's not good enough for some Oakton HS parents. That will be the case when Western opens, and it will remain the case when Western is 100% full and operating on all cylinders. People would be happy if it it had the standing of Carson, but it won't because Carson is pumped up by all the AAP kids from Franklin, and without those AAP kids Carson will be an above-average school but not what it's been for the past several decades. People from Floris and Oak Hill - the higher-income areas most likely to attend Western - find that grating because, while they can understand why Langley parents might chafe at moving to Herndon, they think it's weird that parents now at Oakton would subject themselves and their kids to longer trips to school when they might have a much closer and perfectly acceptable option closer to their homes. People from Fox Mill find it annoying as well, but some are happy that some of the Oakton parents are working overtime to avoid Western because they'd prefer a new AP school for their kids over South Lakes. |
The drive by didn’t occur at the school you idiot. |
I would venture to say that it's because there are a lot of Carson parents who've been around Crossfield and Navy parents for years. Their kids eventually won't have a choice - Western will be their assigned high school - yet the Crossfield and Navy parents are suggesting the future base schools for those kids isn't "good enough." It just feeds into the perception that the Crossfield and Navy parents always acted superior to everyone else at any school their kids attended. |