Not would they have the benefit of established programs.... KAA for thee, but not for me. |
It's more like: My child is at a great school and I am happy with it. So please don't move my child. It has nothing to do with your child. |
Nothing really. They are just elitists. |
SAME. Unfortunately my neighbors will probably ensure we stay at Oakton. Really hoping the opt in period extends to the year my child will enter high school. I much prefer the parent community from the schools that will end up there. More down to earth. |
Its the lack of poor kids. Thats it. |
No one is making your child move from a school they already attend. The school board has all but assured that at this point. If your child isn't at the school yet, then it's "Please don't make my child go to a school that I don't think will be good enough for them. Someone has to go there, so please make sure it's someone else because it's fine for other people's kids just not mine." |
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just curious.
I get why some Crossfield parents want to stay at Oakton despite the long commute. I also get why some other Crossfield parents who want to move are upset at them as they'd rather move to KAA and cut the long commute. What I don’t understand is why some non Crossfield parents are upset at the Crossfield parents who fight to stay. Is it because of some “equity” issue? Or is it because their kids are going to KAA and they want to make sure wealthy Crossfield kids join them? Somebody mentioned tax dollars used for longer bus rides, but that just seems like a really weak reason. [/quote] I doubt that the school board will create a split feeder so the people who are loudly fighting to stay at Oakton are effectively impacting the outcome of the families who want to move. I think that the bigger issue is that the Oakton families are claiming to speak for the majority and it is not clear that they do. As a non-Crossfield family, I don't care. The argument that Oakton is so amazing, and the new school is not going to be good enough is off putting. There is a difference in saying "We don't like the lack of activities at a brand-new school and want to opt out while that is happening" and saying "The new school will never be good enough because Oakton is so awesome", which labels the new school as inferior before it even opens. To be frank, most of the arguments have been kind of elitist. [/quote] Good summary. It doesn't make sense when there is a new school close by instead of busing the distance to Oakton. All over Fairfax County, families will be moved for reasons that don't make sense. Moving Franklin Farm/Crossfield to the new school is logical and makes good sense. The only reason they have given is that they like Oakton. There is no other reason cited. [/quote] Think of it this way... Would you take your current retirement savings or would you trade it all (your future) for what's behind door #1? If you have millions saved and you're comfortable with that, then you'd probably say hell no, I want to keep what I've got. Of course other people have more but you're ok with what you've got. But what if you've only saved 50k, you'd probably be ok risking it all for what's behind door #1. |
+100 I’m so thankful we don’t go to Oakton! Full of Navy parents! |
I was asked why people have a problem with the Oakton families pitch, and the issue is you sound like elitists who think that the other kids being moved to the new school are going to be beneath you. You do realize that there are people with kids at SLHS who wouldn't want to be moved to Oakton, right? Different people value different things. SLHS has a strong community and lots of kids have had a great experience there. The families are not worried about the rating and there are plenty of kids going to strong colleges. There are even people who love IB. The SLHS families I know worried about being moved are concerned about the lack of programs in the first bunch of years but mainly feel like they are a part of a strong community. They know that will build over time but the genuinely love their school. The difference is when they talk about their school, they don't sound like elitists who are hoping and praying that their kids are not moved from the school to a school that is beneath them. Oakton families that don't want to move sound like they are going to be punished by having to go to a HS with kids from Oak Hill, Floris, and Coates. Great Falls families have the same problem. They sound like snobs. The argument that your kids should be at a school that is a 30-40 minute bus drive when there is a school 10 minutes away is kind of ridiculous. And your logic for why you should stay there is that the other schools aren't as good and you don't want to go there. If you can't understand why that sounds bad, then I don't know what to tell you. |
People want what they feel is best for their kids and that may require a longer bus ride. Building resilience is awesome 👌 |
Great Falls families sound like snobs because they don’t want their kids to go to Herndon High which had a student recently murdered in a drive-by after receiving death threats at Herndon High from fellow students? Call me crazy, but that doesn’t sound snobby to me. Sounds like great falls families want their kids to be safe from violence. |
| How many Governors have come out of Oakton? Governor Elect Mikie Sherri is a South Lakes grad, class of 1990. |
So they elected to live right next to Herndon (many with Herndon addresses), do nothing about rising crime in their own area, and then have the rest of us pay to send their kids off to school somewhere else so they don't have to deal with the problems at home? |
Franklin Farm families and neighborhoos families that want to leave Oakton: Please also reconsider what is best for your kids: convenience for adults. Vs. Safety for kids |
Problems at home? 🤣🤣🤣 |