You’ve missed my point. Most of us have had various close friends at different points of our lives based on spending an intense amount of time together. For kids like my daughter this is one of those experiences. She’s going to be kind to anyone leaving her team but the intense friendships will pretty naturally be with those she spends a lot of time with, and I hope for anyone going to a new team they make those new big friendships as well. Seems like a natural change when you move to a new group. |
I’m sorry your kid is such a special snowflake. Go join a rec team!
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Best of luck to your daughter on her new team, I hope she makes lots of new friends. |
Look, I get that at this age being in close proximity certainly helps kids to maintain relationships. But it’s very common and natural for kids to come and go year to year. It’s all a part of the experience and, frankly, life in general. But I've found with my older girls that many of these girl stay in touch if there was a friendship there to begin with, even when their adult parents are acting bitter and immature about a family’s choice to stay or go. |
No drama really. |
Is this YJ or BLC? |
Just a lot of whining |
Mnd updated theirs |
YJ. |
I don’t think so, there is no one superstar on YJ and no hard feelings about the one player leaving or three joining. |
So all this is for the BLC girl that left, who may or may not be their best player? |
There is a family who are former teammates who likes to stir things up on here, I don’t think there are actual hard feelings from almost anyone from any team. Don’t believe everything you read on an anonymous message board. |
Always felt like YJ was two top girls with maybe two others a tier behind. Sounds like one of those top two left. |
This whole thread is a load of BS. Both the girls leaving BLC and YJ are at SR, along with several other girls from both teams. They will all still see each other - and play on the school team - all the time. No one is losing any friends because a couple girls are going to alternative travel teams. Good grief.
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If that’s true it sounds like SR should be pretty solid for this age group |