100%. This is competitive club lacrosse which is not based on friendships, and only gets worse. Just wait until Capital tryouts. |
Has any team posted their rosters yet? |
If you drop a friend because they go to another club that says more about you than it does about them. |
Maybe, but if they really lost their best middie to M&D and one of their goalies somewhere else they may have a tough time |
100%. They were great and solid players. They were not the only ones to get offers to join those teams- just the only ones willing to leave their teammates and friends for it. |
Assuming this is not a Coppermine parent as that team is far enough outside the DMV not to care about DCUM drama…is this a bitter BLC or YJMA parent??
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I will guess YJ. They were a tight knit group *past tense* |
My money’s on BLC. YJMA parents have no illusions there are just a few girls carrying the rest of the team.
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And there best player just left. Hence the drama. |
To the ones coming on here to criticize a player for leaving a team—what is wrong with you??? Do you need to be told this is supposed to be competitive travel lacrosse? No one should have to tell you that players have the right to try out for other teams and move on. Stop being whiny babies about it because it just sounds like jealously that your kid didn’t get the same chance. Grow up. |
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Absolutely, they have a right to leave if that’s what’s best for them. But they should also keep in mind that the players they spent the last few years carpooling with, playing with, and generally sharing a huge experience with won’t have exactly the same friendship. That’s fine, just recognize you are stepping away from close relationships with the old team and hopefully to ones with the new team. |
Omg, this isn't personal. It's club lacrosse. |
We’re talking about a group activity for 12 year old girls and you’re saying it’s not personal? You may be positioning your kid for the best college recruiting experience but my daughter, who is not on a top team, is mostly doing this to spend time with her friends outside of school. If one of her friends left her team she would spend a lot less time with her, I’m sure she would still be kind but it’s not the same. |
Your DD is doing it for the friendships but you can’t impose the same goals and priorities onto others. Of course the time they spend together will be different, but if she truly values the friendships, as you say, then the relationship should endure beyond the team. If the relationship is conditional to being on the same team, then it wasn’t based on anything real to begin with. |