People telling you to relax...
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Anonymous
| Really annoys me. It feel patronizing. Everybody stresses about different things. |
Anonymous
Yup! What a boring world it would be if we were all the same 
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Anonymous
| If your kid doesn’t get into some mildly advanced academic program it won’t affect his life. Really, it’s OK. |
Anonymous
| Lol, well I see a therapist about my anxiety. |
Anonymous
True but not true. All counterfactual. |
Anonymous
So far, my 2nd grader hasn't learned anything in school that he didn't already know. He is not engaged. I don't want elementary school to be hard, but I want him to be engaged. |
Anonymous
| Pace yourself, AAP entry is the beginning, not the end. |
Anonymous
+1 Come on people! if you didn't give a hoot or was anxious, you wouldn't be on this forum, so stop w/ the self righteous nonsense and try to support your fellow parents. |
Anonymous
You've no idea how many parents of base kids say this. This is NOT a basis to determine admission. Second grade isn't hard for most, esp. in this area. Moreover, it is an insufferable statement because I'm certain he didn't know 100% of the material in...let's say - social studies - going in. Truly gifted kids aren't bored. (I know, I know, some will pile it on and say this isn't so but I've attended training sessions on this AND seen this in my classrooms.) |
Anonymous
Sure, I know it's insufferable, that's why I only post it here, on the AAP forum. The forum for gifted kids. When social studies is only taught one week out of four, it's just not enough to keep my kid engaged. It's supposed to be taught two weeks out of four, as is science, but they're often missed for one reason or another. |
Anonymous
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I would not tell you to relax. I have BTDT x2, and I remember how stressful it is. And I disagree with people who say it is inconsequential. Depending on your kid and your school, AAP vs Ge placement can matter a whole lot.
I will tell you that AAP admissions not a one time thing on the AAP track. And you have to find a way to deal with the stress or you will make yourself, and your kid, crazy. Math placement is a thing. IIAT results and 7th grade Algebra I is a thing. TJ admissions is a thing. College admissions are a thing. And between them, most extracurriculars have high stakes competitions involved that are things. If you have more than one kid, there is ALWAYS an important decision you are waiting on. Take it from the parent with one kid in TJ starting college applications and one in MS, waiting to hear from TJ this week. You can let this consume the rest of your kids childhoods. Or you can find a way to put it in the background while you wait. |
Anonymous
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Not OP but as a parent going through AAP admissions for the first time it is stressful. It’s like when you have a new baby and you freak about anything and everything. I’m on #3 and all those concerns I had as a new parent seem rediculous. However, I do not ridicule new parents for overreacting. I show understanding and support. Maybe op is a first-timer maybe not.
It is also ignorant to say that AAP doesn’t matter at all. Of course it does! It is the first fork in the road and kids go down this track or that track. Both routes are good and can lead to success but they are different all the same. |
Anonymous
+1. Totally agree! |
Anonymous
I admit...If my child doesn't make it, I'm not going to be okay. Anyone feels the same and anxious waiting for the results? Come one, vent with me here! 
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Anonymous
| I admit...If my child doesn't make it, I'm not going to be okay. Anyone feels the same and anxious waiting for the results? Come on, vent with me here! |