This woman seated between two obese people is awful but so are they for not buying the extra seat.

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Anonymous wrote:I still don’t get how the woman in the middle seat is the bad guy. No she shouldn’t have said pig but that was after being called b***ch and having random people attach her plus being outed publicly. I feel these airline videos are very unfair to airline passengers. You have a problem on a flight and suddenly you are an internet sensation?

Having been in the same situation (I am small and could fit).The people were kind and the stewardess moved us but geez it was impossible for that lady. The people I sat next to were half the size of those 2 and it was still a squish.

Because she acted like a bitch. She could have nicely asked the flight attendant for another seat. Or asked the couple nicely. But she didn't. She chose to act like a nasty bitch.

Asked the couple nicely what? To stop being so obese and actually fit into the seats they chose to buy rather than taking someone else’s? I don’t get what you’re suggesting. Ask them to actually even pretend to care how obnoxious they were being by stealing something that someone else paid for? What?

Uhhh...she could have asked them if they could switch a seat with her so she'd have the window or aisle. She wouldn't have been kicked off the plane if she had acted kindly. Instead, she acted like a trashy bitch.

+1. Possible less heinous alternatives:

1) Excuse me, would you mind switching seats with me? You guys seem to be together and I am a bit uncomfortable.

2) Excuse me, could you let me out of the aisle? I am not sure I can comfortably sit here and am going to go ask a flight attendant if there are other seats available.

Either of those things, said discreetly, would have been fine and appropriate if somewhat awkward and would not have been the equivalent of screaming about how you should not be expected to be asked to sit between a couple of <insert disgusting insult towards fat people>.

Agree. DP here. But, as you see from certain PPs, they have no intention of switching seats, or accommodating in any way. There was on PP upthread who thought they were gracing the middle seat occupant with their unwashed presence! LOL.

We don't know that. Random people on DCUM do not speak for the couple on the plane. I'm sure the outcome would have been much more pleasant for everyone if she hadn't acted like a bitch. She was the only one at fault here.

You have NO idea what happened before Norma started filming. No one on this board does. You have no idea if she asked them anything. You also don't now what their intentions were, or whether they refused to move or not.

And neither do you.

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I have bolded the only part that I posted. I should have clarified that I was not part of this particular back and forth at all, but a DP interjecting to let you BOTH know to stop speculating. So telling me "neither do you" and "exactly" is unnecessary if directed at me. Thanks, though, for finally acknowledging that you are both wrong when you pretend you can state with certainty which party deserves more blame.

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Anonymous wrote:^ you eed to stop. Really think about the language you are using. Do you want to be this person, really? A person who dehumanizes two people into a term fatties? There are better ways to make your point..why do you choose the lowest one. I bet you can do better.

Is calling them morbidly obese any better? Two rude ppl who don't care about others don't deserve that much respect. The fat woman said she would have beat up the blonde had she been her younger self didn't she?

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Anonymous wrote:I still don’t get how the woman in the middle seat is the bad guy. No she shouldn’t have said pig but that was after being called b***ch and having random people attach her plus being outed publicly. I feel these airline videos are very unfair to airline passengers. You have a problem on a flight and suddenly you are an internet sensation?

Having been in the same situation (I am small and could fit).The people were kind and the stewardess moved us but geez it was impossible for that lady. The people I sat next to were half the size of those 2 and it was still a squish.

Because she acted like a bitch. She could have nicely asked the flight attendant for another seat. Or asked the couple nicely. But she didn't. She chose to act like a nasty bitch.

Asked the couple nicely what? To stop being so obese and actually fit into the seats they chose to buy rather than taking someone else’s? I don’t get what you’re suggesting. Ask them to actually even pretend to care how obnoxious they were being by stealing something that someone else paid for? What?

Uhhh...she could have asked them if they could switch a seat with her so she'd have the window or aisle. She wouldn't have been kicked off the plane if she had acted kindly. Instead, she acted like a trashy bitch.

+1. Possible less heinous alternatives:

1) Excuse me, would you mind switching seats with me? You guys seem to be together and I am a bit uncomfortable.

2) Excuse me, could you let me out of the aisle? I am not sure I can comfortably sit here and am going to go ask a flight attendant if there are other seats available.

Either of those things, said discreetly, would have been fine and appropriate if somewhat awkward and would not have been the equivalent of screaming about how you should not be expected to be asked to sit between a couple of <insert disgusting insult towards fat people>.

Agree. DP here. But, as you see from certain PPs, they have no intention of switching seats, or accommodating in any way. There was on PP upthread who thought they were gracing the middle seat occupant with their unwashed presence! LOL.

We don't know that. Random people on DCUM do not speak for the couple on the plane. I'm sure the outcome would have been much more pleasant for everyone if she hadn't acted like a bitch. She was the only one at fault here.

You have NO idea what happened before Norma started filming. No one on this board does. You have no idea if she asked them anything. You also don't now what their intentions were, or whether they refused to move or not.

And neither do you.

Exactly.

I have bolded the only part that I posted. I should have clarified that I was not part of this particular back and forth at all, but a DP interjecting to let you BOTH know to stop speculating. So telling me "neither do you" and "exactly" is unnecessary if directed at me. Thanks, though, for finally acknowledging that you are both wrong when you pretend you can state with certainty which party deserves more blame.

Both of us have objected to the hateful vitriol being pushed towards the overweight passengers based on conjecture. I can't state anything with certainty other than that the blonde woman behaved reprehensibly, because that is on film, and even if those people had angered me I would not have used hateful insulting derogatory language like she did.

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Anonymous wrote:^ you eed to stop. Really think about the language you are using. Do you want to be this person, really? A person who dehumanizes two people into a term fatties? There are better ways to make your point..why do you choose the lowest one. I bet you can do better.

Is calling them morbidly obese any better? Two rude ppl who don't care about others don't deserve that much respect. The fat woman said she would have beat up the blonde had she been her younger self didn't she?

Yes. The same way you refer to someone mentally disabled as that instead of calling them an idiot or the R word. Treating someone with dignity instead of picking a word you know is cruel and insulting and dehumanizing is in fact something worth doing.

EVERY SINGLE PERSON on that plane who has weight issues heard those words. FELT those words. You live in a society effing act like it. It is rare a DCUM poster really just fills me with rage but I just cannot STAND your posts. It is physically infuriating. I know you are a troll because I think you're the lunatic talking about how you give your husband bjs on the plane a few pages ago but you are just a HORRIBLE person and should know it. Why the F has Jeff not deleted this derogatory cruel dumpster fire of a thread?

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The overweight couple couldn't fit into their seats and both were spilling into the middle seat. That's incredibly rude and inconsiderate. They committed the first offense. The blonde woman didn't respond in the best way but she was responding to their provocation.

And if you're rude and inconsiderate to others, others will be rude will and inconsiderate to you.

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Anonymous wrote:^ you eed to stop. Really think about the language you are using. Do you want to be this person, really? A person who dehumanizes two people into a term fatties? There are better ways to make your point..why do you choose the lowest one. I bet you can do better.

Is calling them morbidly obese any better? Two rude ppl who don't care about others don't deserve that much respect. The fat woman said she would have beat up the blonde had she been her younger self didn't she?

Yes. The same way you refer to someone mentally disabled as that instead of calling them an idiot or the R word. Treating someone with dignity instead of picking a word you know is cruel and insulting and dehumanizing is in fact something worth doing.

EVERY SINGLE PERSON on that plane who has weight issues heard those words. FELT those words. You live in a society effing act like it. It is rare a DCUM poster really just fills me with rage but I just cannot STAND your posts. It is physically infuriating. I know you are a troll because I think you're the lunatic talking about how you give your husband bjs on the plane a few pages ago but you are just a HORRIBLE person and should know it. Why the F has Jeff not deleted this derogatory cruel dumpster fire of a thread?

You sound unhinged and crazy. Calm down.

Those people know they're fat and act entitled because of it and were treated entitled because of it. Do THEY have the common courtesy of picking seats next to each other to be polite and not squish, talk over, or bother the middle seat person? No they do not. They want to be treated with respect then where is their respect for others? Huh?

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Also the blondes words weren't directed to every fat person only the 2 morbidly obese too fat ones.

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I don’t think I personally would ever use the term fatties (especially because I am one right now anyway) but those obese passengers did nothing remotely kind or respectful. They knowingly put an innocent person in a horrible situation that was incredibly awkward and stress inducing at best, physically painful at worst, and they literally could not have cared less about it.

I think of myself as decent with language (always got straight As in English, etc) and I don’t know that I could have come up with that delicately worded request to the flight attendant that a PP crafted... all while I was exhausted and stressed from travel and furious that I was placed in that situation in the first place. If they had any intention of switching then they would have done that before watching her uncomfortably squash in next to them, and you know it. And even then, she would have been unacceptably squashed on one side.

And there was no guarantee that the flight attendant would have switched her. They allowed those people to hoard in the first place so I could forgive the woman for not believing that they would recognize the problem and switch her. And she only called them pigs when SHE was rudely attacked by other people. Prior to that, she referred to the only as “big”.

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PP who was in that situation here. I actually didn’t notice that the people I was sitting with were “big” until I tried to leave for the rest room. What I noticed was that we were surrounded by EMPTY SEATS. Even then the stewardess was very hesitant to let us move. And she refused to let ME move. The “bigger” people had bought bigger seats so they moved but I did not get the feeling that this was a norm. I asked her to let us move and the first answer was NO WAY.

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Anonymous wrote:I still don’t get how the woman in the middle seat is the bad guy. No she shouldn’t have said pig but that was after being called b***ch and having random people attach her plus being outed publicly. I feel these airline videos are very unfair to airline passengers. You have a problem on a flight and suddenly you are an internet sensation?

Having been in the same situation (I am small and could fit).The people were kind and the stewardess moved us but geez it was impossible for that lady. The people I sat next to were half the size of those 2 and it was still a squish.

Because she acted like a bitch. She could have nicely asked the flight attendant for another seat. Or asked the couple nicely. But she didn't. She chose to act like a nasty bitch.

Asked the couple nicely what? To stop being so obese and actually fit into the seats they chose to buy rather than taking someone else’s? I don’t get what you’re suggesting. Ask them to actually even pretend to care how obnoxious they were being by stealing something that someone else paid for? What?

Uhhh...she could have asked them if they could switch a seat with her so she'd have the window or aisle. She wouldn't have been kicked off the plane if she had acted kindly. Instead, she acted like a trashy bitch.

+1. Possible less heinous alternatives:

1) Excuse me, would you mind switching seats with me? You guys seem to be together and I am a bit uncomfortable.

2) Excuse me, could you let me out of the aisle? I am not sure I can comfortably sit here and am going to go ask a flight attendant if there are other seats available.

Either of those things, said discreetly, would have been fine and appropriate if somewhat awkward and would not have been the equivalent of screaming about how you should not be expected to be asked to sit between a couple of <insert disgusting insult towards fat people>.

Agree. DP here. But, as you see from certain PPs, they have no intention of switching seats, or accommodating in any way. There was on PP upthread who thought they were gracing the middle seat occupant with their unwashed presence! LOL.

We don't know that. Random people on DCUM do not speak for the couple on the plane. I'm sure the outcome would have been much more pleasant for everyone if she hadn't acted like a bitch. She was the only one at fault here.

You have NO idea what happened before Norma started filming. No one on this board does. You have no idea if she asked them anything. You also don't now what their intentions were, or whether they refused to move or not.

And neither do you.

Exactly.

I have bolded the only part that I posted. I should have clarified that I was not part of this particular back and forth at all, but a DP interjecting to let you BOTH know to stop speculating. So telling me "neither do you" and "exactly" is unnecessary if directed at me. Thanks, though, for finally acknowledging that you are both wrong when you pretend you can state with certainty which party deserves more blame.

Both of us have objected to the hateful vitriol being pushed towards the overweight passengers based on conjecture. I can't state anything with certainty other than that the blonde woman behaved reprehensibly, because that is on film, and even if those people had angered me I would not have used hateful insulting derogatory language like she did.

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I’d love to see a picture of the two people who didn’t buy the extra seats to see just how big they really are.

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Anonymous wrote:I’d love to see a picture of the two people who didn’t buy the extra seats to see just how big they really are.

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Well they look so slim they shouldn't buy an extra seat. No way they would dare squish any person in the middle and the nurse is so classy. She didn't cuss at the blonde at all. Such an educated and fine nurse. So polite.

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Anonymous wrote:The overweight couple couldn't fit into their seats and both were spilling into the middle seat. That's incredibly rude and inconsiderate. They committed the first offense. The blonde woman didn't respond in the best way but she was responding to their provocation.

And if you're rude and inconsiderate to others, others will be rude will and inconsiderate to you.

This. That couple has flown many times and they know that no one in their right mind wants to sit in that middle seat.

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Anonymous wrote:If those two people were flying together, my money says they bought the aisle and window in hopes that the middle seat would be unused and then they get a free extra seat to spread.

I know so many people who do this and take this gamble. The other woman was super rude though, it was not the way to handle it.

I sat between a man and woman who weren't speaking to each other at first, so I thought they were strangers, too. Eventually, they spoke to each other across me, and I realized they were together. I assume they hoped to have the middle seat open so they could have three seats for two people. It's annoying when people do this.