Debating with this poster is like debating with a stop sign. His/Her concepts and analogies are really twisted and exaggerated. He/She has an inability to view this issue for any perspective but their own. |
^^^ I happen to believe people should do the jobs try are paid for competently, without needing help from others. If they cannot do that, it means they are not doing a good job. Feel free to disagree - I am just stating my position, not burning to convert you.
I moved somewhere with good schools because I don't view t as my job to improve a school. You are equally free to live where you want and to work on improving a school if you so desire. Freedom of choice is wonderful. DCPS beaurocracy is not. |
Curse you, autocorrect! Try = they; t=it. |
I can respect this. What would annoy me is if you stayed where you were and whined about the neighborhood school because they weren't begging you to come the way some posters do on DCUM. |
1. In general people in places with "good" demographics and good schools do not need major involvement to have a good school. As PP said above, bake sales, chaperoning field trips is a far cry from the effort to turn a school around
2. That said, I think in bad schools with "bad" demographics in troubled systems, the reality is that much larger parental involvment is needed. Thats not just DC - I think it applies to many inner city school systems. In our own region, I imagine it plays a big role in PG County and in City of Alexandria as well. 3. That said, far more parents will make that commitment for major involvement, if they see the school system is encouraging it by doing SOMETHING for neighborhood families, and esp if the principal is encouraging of it. 4. That said, DCPS probably DOES have bigger fish to fry right now than LT, or the Hill in general. In particular the transition of Hardy and its feeders to IB, the reopening of Mcfarland, the construction of new middle schools EOTP, addressing and encouraging steady transition in several EOTP schools, managing the relationship to charters, and addressing the many low performing schools. |
I hate to break it to you, but educating your kids is YOUR job too. Schools don't provide everything, even the best ones. This notion that a school should be a panacea reflects some really questionable parenting |
I educate my kids through supplementals (music lessons, trying to instill love of reading, discussing history, helping with homework, getting tutors if necessary). It is not my job to be the one teaching basic curriculum because the school cannot as the other kids in class cannot read in middle school, or making sure discipline is maintained in school otherwise there would be brawls in hallways. If it was, I'd homeschool. |
But I don't think anyone here is arguing (at least, not credibly) that LT isn't teaching basic curriculum effectively -- people are complaining because there's no chess club, or because they can't kick back and relax at fundraising galas. |
Yes, different poster here, but I think the point is that this poster, as well as myself, would prefer to spend my valuable time educating my children in our own way instead of improving a struggling school. |
I actually think L-T gets a somewhat unfair rep at DCUM (as opposed to a lot of truly horrible DCPS schools nobody talks about much). It’s clearly teaching its target audience – disadvantaged OOB kids – well, if the DC-CAS scores are anything to go by. It’s not a neighborhood school and does not reflect neighborhood demographics, but that’s another issue entirely. I am just puzzled by all the posters in this thread who either think that if you want a good school you must work hard to make a school that is not to your liking into one that is or, alternatively, think that people should be OK with sending their children to a school the parents don’t like (however irrational the reason for the dislike may be). I happen to think that if you can afford it (and many posters clearly can), you should stop beating your head against a rock and move somewhere where the schools are fine “as is” and you don’t need to either work hard to fix them to your liking or seethe impotently. |
This mom (or dad) sounds like an entirely reasonable, rational person. We most likely just lost an active neighbor, who was smart and with it. I wish I could do the same, but it is not in the cards for us. |
two are not related whatsoever, nor are they mutually exclusive. if you think your child's education is entirely on the school you are wrong. |
Amen. But that runs counter to the past 30-40 yrs of the way this city has been run. However, it is not going to be a fight as much as people think. It will change. It is changing, and it will continue to. One day, DC will have good schools. It is the highest # of PhD's per capita. It is simply inevitable. The tough part is what people do in the mean time, and that is where it is messy..... Enjoy it while it lasts, DCPS freeloaders!!! |
Um no, clearly my point was neither of the above. What is limited is my TIME. How I choose to spend my time is my choice, and I choose not to spend it on a low-SES school that desperately needs my time, my income, my intelligence, my effort. Outta luck on this one! |
In case it is not obvious, I will spend as much of my time on my children as possible. I will not spend time on a school that does not meet my standards, nor do I want to spend time teaching against the bad habits my children would pick up in such an environment. Jump all over me, there you go, but that is simply the truth. |