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PP here. I don't disagree with you. For my own kids, practicing their musical instrument 30 minutes/day is plenty. If they routinely had more than 2 hours of homework per night, I'd be encouraging them to drop down from at least AP/Honors classes. If I thought my kids would be in the bottom half of TJ, I'd discourage them from applying because it would be too much work. My kid is strongly into math contests, practices somewhat, and then loses to the Asian kids who practice more while my kid is playing video games. I'm totally fine with all of that. But, the natural result of that is that there are (primarily Asian) kids who have worked harder and are thus more advanced than mine. I don't begrudge them that, nor do I expect my kids to be selected for things like TJ or orchestra over these kids. They chose to prioritize TJ and academics. My family didn't. It's all fine. |
See, and that's great for you and your family. I really appreciate your perspective on this. What I have a problem with is an admissions process that incentivizes unhealthy behaviors and an early streamlining of academic priorities with children who are 11 and 12 years old. There are children who display exceptional natural ability at those ages in particular areas, and that's wonderful and should be nurtured. But what I see in practice in Northern Virginia are too many parents who envy those children with those exceptional natural abilities and will spare no expense or resource to pose their child as one with those same abilities. And then I see them get to TJ and have to stay up until all hours of the night, forsake all of the things that give them joy, AND spare even greater expense in outside tutoring in order for them to still end up in the bottom third of their class, miserable with their experience, and disappointed when they end up at VCU or Ohio State. So what I don't want is for the admissions process in its final form (which I hope it is not yet) to confer advantages to people for posing their kids as something they're not. And I've watched it happen for too long. |
That seems accurate. And what I thought was the situation, reading between the lines... |
Sounds like we need a lottery. |
+1000 - the kids at TJ know who the posers are. and usually the posers know it themselves. |
Who are you to decide on what is unhealthy for another’s family? You evaluate others through your standards. See anything wrong in that? |
To answer my own question, only 0.62% (less than 1%) of the class admitted in 20-21 were from economically disadvantaged families. Do we want gifted science kids from economically disadvantaged families to have access? |
So you are saving the innocent kids from their ignorant evil Asian parents. Because you care. How noble of you, dear sir/madam...(eyes filling with tears. damn onions) |
Ehh. You see enough kids and enough issues and you start to figure things out. |
Oh, believe me, at TJ it's far more than just the Asians. |
First PP here. While I don't personally like putting that much pressure on kids or streamlining their interests, I'm hesitant to label different cultural values as an "unhealthy behavior." In any objective measure, the kids practicing these "unhealthy behaviors" are highly successful, and many of them are quite content. If it works for them, and their kids are objectively more advanced than mine, then they deserve the TJ spot. It's similar to the olympics for me. When I hear olympic athlete backstories, I feel like the Olympics is incentivizing unhealthy behaviors and streamlining of children's activities to the exclusion of almost everything else. It seems to work for them, though, so who am I to judge? |
Hey white boys - Pull your self up by the boot straps!
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Saying this is a racist is being a racist. |
Vast majority of them (70%) are disadvantaged for being Asian students and in my estimation about 20-40% are economically disadvantaged on top of that meaning less than $75,000 per year in HHI. because of all the hate and discrimination directed towards Asian students for doing well academically. How about doing the same for your snowflakes Johnny and Susie for dancing, soccer, hockey, singing, debating, writing, poetry, acting, drawing, basketball etc. etc.? |