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My point exactly. The 2011-2013 is going to be MASSIVELY impacted by the decisions being made over the next few months. Im the original poster. My 2012 HAS played with 2013's and I can't believe they are in the same grade. Another year of GA will slow her momentum, it'll cost her exposure opportunities but I'll try not to stress too much about it. 2026 will be here before long. |
Also unclear is if all the top leagues switch and if some keep BY, it perhaps leads to a system where RAE is eventually minimized. |
Original poster, huh? Nevermind your kid, you must be proud of birthing this thread—no doubt we hit 500 before the weekend is out! |
| What have people heard is more than likey the new cut off if US club switches to SY ? August 1st or Sept 1st? |
If there's no switch, you 2012 should benefit from another year with older kids. Additionally, those 2013-ers might have not even done 11v11, as most are doing 9v9 right now. If your 2012 doesn't join until 2026, at least that cohort will have a year under their belt at that size. |
Right there with you, i have 2012 q4 daughter, one of the strongest and fastest girls on the team. Plays centerback and holding her own. Definitely outsized in most games, she plays very physically and is a good passer, but I worry about injuries when I see girls she's defending consistently having about 50lbs on her. 2026 can't come soon enough. |
Agree, as a 2012 q4 parent i really want the switch asap, but I do see a benefit of playing up one more year |
With the size advantage removed, your kid might get a chance to play different positions as sometimes the best player ends up at CB because not many others can handle (or want since not as many scoring opportunities). |
My daughter is Sept 2013. She is middle of the pack on a U12 pre-ECNL team, with smaller size being her challenge. Not sure whether it’s better for her to keep fighting at this level until growth spurts level out or to move down and immediately be near if not at the top of the younger team. |
Well, if no changes, she'll play 11v11 in the fall. With changes, she'd stay 9v9 unless, on paper (probably given a shot to play up, depending on who tries out) |
They remind you that RAE is the same under BY and SY because you keep trying to justify SY by saying that it will minimize RAE which is blatantly false. We get that you're trying every angle you can to give your kid an advantage. But just take them to the park and work on shooting it will help them way more than tilting the rules in their favor. |
Common situation but so many factors you need to weigh. Confidence level where she is, her attitude toward growth or being a big fish in a smaller pond, lots of opinions on benefits of longer small ball play, ultimate goals, team dynamics, coaching options. Far too much for a simple answer but I wouldn't take another Pre-ECNL year off the table if its offered and don't let ego be your guide. Good luck, I know how tough these decisions are. |
lol! Are you sure you're not that guy?! If not, you guys should meet. You'd be fast friends. So even when I say 'Nobody wants SY because it eliminates RAE', you somehow misread that as 'you keep trying to justify SY by saying it will minimize RAE'??? Oh, to live in your head for just a day.
Not sure how else to help you here. I know you're scared of what's coming. Deep breathes...you'll be okay. |
Why would anyone bother justifying SY at this point? Done deal. |
Hoping for one more year of BY—feel like she’ll be in a better place to decide then after a full year of 11v11 ECNL, and I’d rather she repeat U13 than U12. |