Unimpressed with dating sites

[Anonymous]

Pretty lame assortment of men. Where are the smart, interesting, decent-looking men? The ones I see are overweight and boring. Looking for men their 40s/50s. Also, why just white or black? Wishing for more diversity.

[Anonymous]

Married

[Anonymous]

And they are unimpressed with you.

[Anonymous]

Where are the not-fat 40- and 50-year-old women who don't whine?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And they are unimpressed with you.

Nope. I haven't pulled the trigger to meet any yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where are the not-fat 40- and 50-year-old women who don't whine?

Again, I am not fat or whiny. I am reading the profiles (unlike the guys who have messaged me and are the opposite of what I am seeking) but just not finding anyone that is sparking my interest.

And I am open to all races, average build, etc.

I think "married" is indeed the problem. As in, already taken.

[Anonymous]

Taken.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Where are the not-fat 40- and 50-year-old women who don't whine?

Again, I am not fat or whiny. I am reading the profiles (unlike the guys who have messaged me and are the opposite of what I am seeking) but just not finding anyone that is sparking my interest.

And I am open to all races, average build, etc.

I think "married" is indeed the problem. As in, already taken.

You are "open to"? No no no. If you want a tall adventure seeking yachtsman, you get your ass to Everest base camp or Manchu Pichu. Take some responsibility for finding this unicorn you're holding out for.

[Anonymous]

Can you join a few sites that are specific to the diversity that you seek? There are some pretty targeted dating sites out there.

[Anonymous]

Life takes a toll on all of us baby. If lived properly. And unselfishly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Life takes a toll on all of us baby. If lived properly. And unselfishly.

You are wise. I mean that.

[Anonymous]

The men you are looking for are out living life. They are doing things they enjoy and meeting people that way. They are not behind a computer hoping for a miracle. While you may occasionally find a unicorn on a dating site, you're far more likely to run into only those guys who have to resort to dating sites because they are unable to meet women in daily life or are unappealing to those they do meet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The men you are looking for are out living life. They are doing things they enjoy and meeting people that way. They are not behind a computer hoping for a miracle. While you may occasionally find a unicorn on a dating site, you're far more likely to run into only those guys who have to resort to dating sites because they are unable to meet women in daily life or are unappealing to those they do meet.

OP here. This is a really good observation. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

If you want diversity, you should look into specialized sites.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can you join a few sites that are specific to the diversity that you seek? There are some pretty targeted dating sites out there.

Will do some more research. Was looking at three that are mainstream; maybe that was the problem.