WWYD: Boyfriend said he'd be over soon. That was an hour and a half ago.

[Anonymous]

BF called when he was leaving work (at 6/6:15) and we caught up quickly. Said he was going home to eat dinner and decompress and he'd be over after. We both talked about being tired and turning in early. Follow up phone call about something I'd forgotten at 6:45. Now it's after eight and I haven't heard from him. WWYD??

[Anonymous]

OP here: forgot to add, he lives less than ten minutes away.

[Anonymous]

Call him?

[Anonymous]

Text him and ask if he's okay. Assume he fell asleep. Hadn't heard from him in 12 hours - start taking steps to confirm he's alive with with other friends/his family (only if you know them), and then file a police report after a day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here: forgot to add, he lives less than ten minutes away.

Please don't do the crazy girlfriend thing and show up at his door.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't stress over an hour and a half. Maybe he fell asleep and is taking a nap.

I definitely don't suggest doing what PP 20:16 said. That is doing way too much.

If he's not a man of HUs word, and that bothers you, just let him go. Then find a man who does what he says he'll do.

[Anonymous]

I'm confused ... 6:30 he is leaving work

Home at 7, 30 minutes to make dinner and eat.

30 minutes to decompress would be 8 pm at the earliest.

[Anonymous]

You sound nuts if this bothers you

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound nuts if this bothers you

Really? You think nothing of telling someone you'll be there in 90 minutes and don't show?

[Anonymous]

Fell asleep probably

[Anonymous]

He didn't give a time?

If my husband said "soon" or "later" that could mean anything from 30 minutes to several hours. Just the other day we were texting around 6:30 and he said he was leaving work "soon" and didn't get home until 11. I said "So, you said you were leaving work soon before 7 - late night, huh?" And he said "I said that?" He gets distracted at work. Is it possible your boyfriend got tied up by a project or boss?

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t worry tonight.

[Anonymous]

This is why you don't see your boyfriend every night. If you're not going to spend the evening together then just skip having him come over. Men get bored easily and women like to play house. See him 2-3 nights a week when it'll be special. He shouldn't just be coming over to get in bed.

[Anonymous]

You sound very high maintenance at best.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm confused ... 6:30 he is leaving work

Home at 7, 30 minutes to make dinner and eat.

30 minutes to decompress would be 8 pm at the earliest.

This is my guess too.

OP, I'd just text and see if he's still up to coming over. Actually, I' probably just delay until tomorrow night then you can sleep over and sleep in and not worry about work.