Which Girl to Choose Between?

[Anonymous]

I am stuck between two women right now. I like them both for different reasons.

Girl #1. 32, RN, but advancing degree to CRNA. Late start in career ( changed from unhappy field), and don't be out if school until 35. Cute, girl next door, with tight body. Amazing in bed and loves going downtown. Great cook, amazing with kids, honest, loyal, very mild tempered, and very kind to others. She's definitely prime marriage material.

Girl #2. 31, MBA in finance, and more establish. Very hot and decent body. Good cook, likes kids, honest, a little more high maintenance, and good in bed, but won't go downtown often. She's also marriage material.

I'm 34 and looking for something very serious. #1 isn't as hot but seems to make up for it other areas. #2 is drop dead gorgeous but a little high maintenance and kind of a dead fish. Which would you choose?

[Anonymous]

never marry a high maintenance person--male or female

[Anonymous]

A dead fish?

[Anonymous]

Low drama = happy wife = happy life.

I always err of the side of someone who is less emotionally volatile.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Low drama = happy wife = happy life.

I always err of the side of someone who is less emotionally volatile.

Agreed.

[Anonymous]

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Do they know you are sleeping with both of them at once? That's sleazy. End it with one of them, please.

[Anonymous]

Do they know that you call one of them a "dead fish" while continuing to sleep with both of them?

I hope they both drop you. :/

[Anonymous]

Are you the OP of the FWB to gf thread? Your description of the RN girl is almost the exact same.

[Anonymous]

What's your income? Your grammar isn't great.

A CRNA will make $200k+. Can you keep up? They have awesome schedules.

[Anonymous]

I was once in your position, except I'm a female who was choosing between 2 guys. I went with the one I thought would be better marriage material.

I was wrong. In reality, the fact that I had to choose meant neither were right for me. If I could do it over I'd dump both and wait for someone who left no doubt in my mind that they were the right one. The guy who checked off all the right boxes and looked great on a pros/cons list turned out to be absolutely miserable to live with and even worse once kids arrived.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was once in your position, except I'm a female who was choosing between 2 guys. I went with the one I thought would be better marriage material.

I was wrong. In reality, the fact that I had to choose meant neither were right for me. If I could do it over I'd dump both and wait for someone who left no doubt in my mind that they were the right one. The guy who checked off all the right boxes and looked great on a pros/cons list turned out to be absolutely miserable to live with and even worse once kids arrived.

+1

[Anonymous]

And what do you do?

[Anonymous]

Op here. Sorry for the typos. I made a slight typo. Girl #1 34 when she graduates.

Yes, I have been dating both. We met online and have been casual dating for a month. I really like #1 more, but #2 is just so damn hot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And what do you do?

Accounting. Make 150k +.

[Anonymous]

Serious question, what makes #1 great in bed? What makes #2 only good in bed.