Which Girl to Choose Between?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here. Sorry for the typos. I made a slight typo. Girl #1 34 when she graduates.

Yes, I have been dating both. We met online and have been casual dating for a month. I really like #1 more, but #2 is just so damn hot.

I'm going to go with option 3: neither one of them. You don't sound mature enough for any type of commitment. Maybe it's not lack of maturity-- maybe it's just that you're so darn shallow. At any rate, I suggest you just keep banging both of the "girls" until you grow up a little or until girl #2 gains weight and levels the hotness playing field.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was once in your position, except I'm a female who was choosing between 2 guys. I went with the one I thought would be better marriage material.

I was wrong. In reality, the fact that I had to choose meant neither were right for me. If I could do it over I'd dump both and wait for someone who left no doubt in my mind that they were the right one. The guy who checked off all the right boxes and looked great on a pros/cons list turned out to be absolutely miserable to live with and even worse once kids arrived.

This. The fact OP is having to choose between 2 women tells me he isn't in love. When you're truly in love you don't want anyone but that one person. Op is talking about these women like they are a purchase.

[Anonymous]

I'm a happily married woman and I don't get the outrage here from some. Sex is only one part of his criteria even if he sounds a bit vulgar/immature about it

trust me op, once you have a toddler running around you'll both be grateful just to get a five minute quickie in. Also, have some respect, this woman is going to carry your child ffs.

But sex compatibility IS, in general, important. how many men AND women do we see here posting that their spouse isn't meeting their needs and they are miserable.

I'm also assuming there is no deceit going on and that neither woman thinks things are exclusive. Otherwise, yeah, he's a dick who deserves neither.

ANYWAY op, hands down the nurse. Otherwise you are likely looking at a /painful/expensive divorce in about 7 years, combined with regret about the one that got away.

[Anonymous]

Go with #1.

A. Girl 2 may not be hot forever.

B. Hotness doesn’t mean a damn thing when life gets real and you need a partner. It won’t matter how hot she is when your parents are ill or one of them dies. You’ll need someone who can rise to the occasion.

C. She’s high maintenance. That’s a no no. It’s not at all cute when you’re in the same house dealing with it day in and out.

D. You like #1 more sexually. Sexual satisfaction is important.

E. You like #1 more period.

So why is this even a question??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was once in your position, except I'm a female who was choosing between 2 guys. I went with the one I thought would be better marriage material.

I was wrong. In reality, the fact that I had to choose meant neither were right for me. If I could do it over I'd dump both and wait for someone who left no doubt in my mind that they were the right one. The guy who checked off all the right boxes and looked great on a pros/cons list turned out to be absolutely miserable to live with and even worse once kids arrived.

This. The fact OP is having to choose between 2 women tells me he isn't in love. When you're truly in love you don't want anyone but that one person. Op is talking about these women like they are a purchase.

Best response on the thread. OP, if someone is right for you, you won't want to look at anyone else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was once in your position, except I'm a female who was choosing between 2 guys. I went with the one I thought would be better marriage material.

I was wrong. In reality, the fact that I had to choose meant neither were right for me. If I could do it over I'd dump both and wait for someone who left no doubt in my mind that they were the right one. The guy who checked off all the right boxes and looked great on a pros/cons list turned out to be absolutely miserable to live with and even worse once kids arrived.

This. The fact OP is having to choose between 2 women tells me he isn't in love. When you're truly in love you don't want anyone but that one person. Op is talking about these women like they are a purchase.

Best response on the thread. OP, if someone is right for you, you won't want to look at anyone else.

+1. When you're in love you certainly don't need to post on a website asking strangers if you should be with the person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was once in your position, except I'm a female who was choosing between 2 guys. I went with the one I thought would be better marriage material.

I was wrong. In reality, the fact that I had to choose meant neither were right for me. If I could do it over I'd dump both and wait for someone who left no doubt in my mind that they were the right one. The guy who checked off all the right boxes and looked great on a pros/cons list turned out to be absolutely miserable to live with and even worse once kids arrived.

This. The fact OP is having to choose between 2 women tells me he isn't in love. When you're truly in love you don't want anyone but that one person. Op is talking about these women like they are a purchase.

Best response on the thread. OP, if someone is right for you, you won't want to look at anyone else.

+1. When you're in love you certainly don't need to post on a website asking strangers if you should be with the person.

+2

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was once in your position, except I'm a female who was choosing between 2 guys. I went with the one I thought would be better marriage material.

I was wrong. In reality, the fact that I had to choose meant neither were right for me. If I could do it over I'd dump both and wait for someone who left no doubt in my mind that they were the right one. The guy who checked off all the right boxes and looked great on a pros/cons list turned out to be absolutely miserable to live with and even worse once kids arrived.

This. The fact OP is having to choose between 2 women tells me he isn't in love. When you're truly in love you don't want anyone but that one person. Op is talking about these women like they are a purchase.

Best response on the thread. OP, if someone is right for you, you won't want to look at anyone else.

+1. When you're in love you certainly don't need to post on a website asking strangers if you should be with the person.

+2

+3

OP is a pathetic child.

-A dude

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was once in your position, except I'm a female who was choosing between 2 guys. I went with the one I thought would be better marriage material.

I was wrong. In reality, the fact that I had to choose meant neither were right for me. If I could do it over I'd dump both and wait for someone who left no doubt in my mind that they were the right one. The guy who checked off all the right boxes and looked great on a pros/cons list turned out to be absolutely miserable to live with and even worse once kids arrived.

This. The fact OP is having to choose between 2 women tells me he isn't in love. When you're truly in love you don't want anyone but that one person. Op is talking about these women like they are a purchase.

Best response on the thread. OP, if someone is right for you, you won't want to look at anyone else.

+1. When you're in love you certainly don't need to post on a website asking strangers if you should be with the person.

Riiiight. Life is like a movie. Got it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, do YOU also go downtown for them?

+1. What do you bring to the table, OP?

accounting. hahhahahha. at least be an actuary or do forensic accounting inhouse for Carlyle or something.

[Anonymous]

You sound douche-y

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was once in your position, except I'm a female who was choosing between 2 guys. I went with the one I thought would be better marriage material.

I was wrong. In reality, the fact that I had to choose meant neither were right for me. If I could do it over I'd dump both and wait for someone who left no doubt in my mind that they were the right one. The guy who checked off all the right boxes and looked great on a pros/cons list turned out to be absolutely miserable to live with and even worse once kids arrived.

This. The fact OP is having to choose between 2 women tells me he isn't in love. When you're truly in love you don't want anyone but that one person. Op is talking about these women like they are a purchase.

Op here. I've only known them for two months. Why would I be in love? That's a little fast.

[Anonymous]

Oh, the high maintenance dead fish, of course!

[Anonymous]

Which one do you enjoy being around with your clothes on? But you should just know that someone feels right. Sounds like you haven't met her yet.

[Anonymous]

#1. But you should get exclusive with one quickly before they exercise other options.