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Anonymous wrote:There was a Miner parent in the Q&A tonight who said the Maury townhall commentary was "hurtful," and I didn't really understand that either. I feel like the commentary I've heard has been frank about the challenges Miner has faced -- none of which are the fault of its students -- and the challenges that people think would face the proposed cluster, but I haven't seen anything derogatory about Miner students or families.
I feel the same way, though I think some of it comes from feeling like the Maury community is “rejecting” partnering with Miner, but that’s not the overriding message I’ve been hearing at all. And I feel sad that this is how it’s being taken. I’ve tried to be really involved about listening to this plan and the reasoning but I just cannot get over the lack of detail on implementation, nor the stress it will likely personally bring me if we have kids in multiple schools.
And from other parents, I’m hearing the same concerns about total lack of detail on a pretty big plan and increased stress about commutes/drop off— on top of some people feeling exasperated that they may literally live outside one school but won’t even get to go there for half of elementary school.
Agree. I’m a Maury parent and I’ve been in a LOT of conversations with Maury folks about this over the past two weeks and I simply have not heard Maury parents “rejecting” Miner or being snooty about it or any of the accusations that are being levied. If Miner parents feel that way, that is awful and I empathize with them. But the blame lies with DME for rolling this out in a way that feels like Maury is the only voice that matters, not on Maury parents who I have not heard express hurtful sentiments.
It may not have been you saying these things , but the way some people on here, at last night's meeting, and in the Maury meeting were talking was not welcoming at all. Obsessing over test scores and
what would happen if some of the at risk students at Miner interacted and learned with your Maury kids was talked about at length. Threatening to move rather than walk three blocks to their school in
such a horrible neighborhood (when many already do this for ECE). Focusing on time commuting to new drop offs, while saying they will leave to enter the lottery of a school which is even further away. Just to name a few, but it is naive to think those things would not be at least a little hurtful to the school down the street
Hang on. I’m sympathetic, I really am, but these things simply were not said. No one said anything about “what would happen if some of the at risk students at Miner interacted and learned with Maury kids,” or that it was “such a horrible neighborhood.” I copied and saved a document of all of the questions asked in the chat (not just the ones that Charles read out loud), and what you are claiming simply isn’t there. Yes, people asked for data, and yes, people asked about safety. Those are not invalid questions to at least discuss.
And focus on commuting time is neither invalid nor hypothetical. Most families have more than one kid, so it’s not only a question of additional travel time to one school, it’s a question of two drop-offs and two pick-ups when your kids aren’t in the same school. I don’t know why people keep brushing that off. As it is, it’s a mad rush for me to drop the kids off at one school, get to work on time, and hustle out of work to be back on the hill to pick up before aftercare closes.