Did they rush the football team? Or a fraternity |
You mean like in an orchestra or a play? |
I'm curious why you want your child to go to a "high academic school" when he isn't a highly academic kid. Does HE want this? I have two kids at Big3 schools. One loves the pressure and the academics and does extremely well. She wants a highly academic college where she can be surrounded by extremely driven kids and work really hard. My second kid is not an academic. He is around the 50% mark for the Big3 school. He has ZERO interest in going to a highly academic college after 4 years at a highly academic high school. I know many, many kids like him. Does your son really want 4 more years of academic stress in a class of "gunners? My son can think of nothing worse. |
I was a professor for a couple of years at a prominent Midwestern private university. My friend always used to scan the class roster immediately before the semester started, looking for athletes and "building names". When he found those names, he stressed in the first class how difficult the course was going to be and that it would be really tough to succeed if you had to miss class frequently. No one from either category ever remained once Add/Drop ended. |
An orchestra is an orchestra. A play has a cast. neither is a team, so they cannot teach teamwork. |
Nope. I completely disagree. I have a son who plays on a rather elite lacrosse team. He is pretty good and he does put in a lot of time training and traveling to games and tournaments. But he is not like the top players on his team. Those boys are all in, 100% devoted to their sport. They arrive at practice first and leave last, they do fitness on their own time and work with coaches on their off days. They travel to local colleges to watch games there. They live and breathe their sport and they are different. It is hard to explain but while my son is a very good player and is on the same team as them (but is not a starter) he is not the same. My son has not looked to play in college next year and that is of course a decision we support. He has had a great time and learned much from his sport. The other boys, though, they are impressive in ways that I can not exactly articulate and I would think that a college would value the traits they possess. |
Both are a team. Jeez. |
It’s really not hard to find. You should just use Google. Here is one but there are many so good luck educating yourself but you sound too small minded to be open to the idea. https://ed.stanford.edu/news/stanford-education-study-provides-new-evidence-big-fish-little-pond-effect-students-globally |
that's sentimental claptrap. a college should value someone who plays lacrosse because they 'live and breathe their sport?" the only trait they're exhibiting is monomania. |
sorry - no. you can only learn team work and dedication from playing a sport. sports are so amazing that even a primarily individual sport, like swimming, teaches teamwork, where your stupid orchestra, play or robotics doesn't teach anything of the sort. |
DP here. Respectfully, the study you show is tangential at best, and speaks only of the self-esteem of high achievers when among others of the same caliber, and says nothing about their performance or grades, their success, or either relative to athletes, and certainly no evidence of any of this type of data being used to create college admissions policies. So, you posted a link, but I do not believe it supports your point in any way. |
it does because if you let in enough dumb athletes and legacies rather than all smart kids, the smart kids can feel like the big fish in the small pond. So letting those dumb athletes in actually helps the self esteem of kids who are actually qualified. |
I hope this is sarcasm. |
absolutely not. I hire for a big tech company and I only hire people who have been on sports teams because only they truly understand teamwork, commitment and time management. I've had applicants with stellar credentials and who aced the technical interview try to claim that working with others to build a rocket constituted teamwork and I always have to tell them, "sorry, if it isn't a sport, I just don't count it." |
absolutely not. I hire for a big tech company and I only hire people who have been on sports teams because only they truly understand teamwork, commitment and time management. I've had applicants with stellar credentials and who aced the technical interview try to claim that working with others to build a rocket constituted teamwork and I always have to tell them, "sorry, if it isn't a sport, I just don't count it." |