Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
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Anonymous
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Hotels? Air B and B?
Very happy with AP. Both of us are in sexless marriages we can't leave right now (both breadwinners). Problem is finding private places to be together. Not interested in your judgment. Until you've been denied sex for years while doing 90% of household tasks and being primary earner, you've no idea. |
Anonymous
| How does being the breadwinner preclude you from getting a divorce? Just get one and move on. Grow up. |
Anonymous
| My mom would go to cheap motels. That is how I caught her, by seeing her car parked out front. Our relationship has never recovered. |
Anonymous
+1 If you're possibly "staying for the kids' sake" because your spouse doesn't earn, get a grip. Be honest with yourself, your spouse and (eventually) your kids, rather than maintaining an affair they'll find out about eventually anyway. You can divorce and give your ex what a court orders and even more, if you want to. But claiming you can't divorce because you're the breadwinner is just finding an excuse to stay in an affair rather than being up front and leaving your marriage. You sound as if you're enjoying the drama of being in an affair (and getting an anonymous thrill out of telling a bunch of strangers on the internet that you're out there, so happy with AP, so good at keeping your secret, and just hoping for some titillating ideas on where to hide out). |
Anonymous
DING! DING! DING! This. |
Anonymous
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My car
His place My place |
Anonymous
| One of our offices, supply closets, stairwells, one of our cars, hotels, my place, his place. |
Anonymous
| There are a few rooming houses on Rhode Island Ave. NE in DC that rent rooms for short durations. (Like $25 for 4 hours.) |
Anonymous
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Hotels, parks, car.
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Anonymous
There's one at South Dakota and Rhode Island that looks awful |
Anonymous
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OP probably likes that his/her AP is a FWB and if s/he was single the AP would become a SO.
SOs are annoying. |
Anonymous
Yeah I can totally imagine a woman going for those latter two. If the guy won't even pony up the dough for a hotel room, dump his sorry ass and get a higher quality AP. |
Anonymous
| His place or a hotel. |
Anonymous
This actually happens all the time. I walk in various parks on a daily basis and I often see couples parked next to each other in the corners of parking lots. When I first noticed this I didn't realize they were there to "hook up". Very common at lunch time and immediately after work. |
Anonymous
DH and I have had sex in the car in a Dunkin Donuts parking lot. It was exciting. |