Where did you go to be with your affair partner?

[Anonymous]

I'm definitely way too cheap to ever have a long-term affair

[Roar]

No paper trails. Ever. This means turning off the GPS in your phones and parking 2 blocks away (or taking a cab, but not an uber). If someone wanted to find you out, they can through a digital footprint and breadcrumbs you leave along the way.

Make sure your communication is on Text Secure or another encrypted app. http://www.businessinsider.com/the-7-safest-apps-to-send-private-and-secure-messages-2015-4#/#textsecure-1

No matter how well you hide your tracks, you can be found. Just make sure you're limiting your exposure.

As for facilities I would get a pay as you go credit card and call the hotel directly for the cheapest rates.

I won't judge, but I don't condone anything stupid just for a great piece of ass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You may want to consider just renting an apartment long-term. My friend does this, and that means it's always available. He uses it for other things too, like a place to crash if he's been out drinknig that night and can't drive home. Just a studio apartment on a long-term lease may be cheaper than getting a hotel room every time.

he sounds like a winner! LOL

In another thread about sugar babies, someone said how many top law firm partners do this. This friend I referred to runs a top business in this area. So I guess it's not surprising that people with high incomes have such arrangements.

Not for me -- no time or drive, even if I wanted to!

[Anonymous]

Roar wrote:No paper trails. Ever. This means turning off the GPS in your phones and parking 2 blocks away (or taking a cab, but not an uber). If someone wanted to find you out, they can through a digital footprint and breadcrumbs you leave along the way.

Make sure your communication is on Text Secure or another encrypted app. http://www.businessinsider.com/the-7-safest-apps-to-send-private-and-secure-messages-2015-4#/#textsecure-1

No matter how well you hide your tracks, you can be found. Just make sure you're limiting your exposure.

As for facilities I would get a pay as you go credit card and call the hotel directly for the cheapest rates.

I won't judge, but I don't condone anything stupid just for a great piece of ass.

I don't care if my husband finds out.

[Anonymous]

THE BUTTHOLE SPA AND RECREATION CENTER

[Anonymous]

Sounds like too much effort. I'll stick with my vibrator.

[Anonymous]

Some good hotels in DC will rent on an hourly rate, and they will take cash. It's a win-win for them.

There are also various nooks around DC where a couple can get it on undisturbed. Local colleges for example have empty classrooms at different times of the day. Some of those rooms have locking doors, and lights that can be turned off (or on).

[Anonymous]

We get hotels pretty plain and simple for some of the most amazing sexual romps!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We get hotels pretty plain and simple for some of the most amazing sexual romps!

+1 we use Hotel Tonight App for deals

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If it's just for sex there a ton of Comfort Inn type motels surrounding DC. Use a separate credit card or cash. My favorite was coordinating business trips where we could stay together at a nice place. We never flew together and mostly did room service which was fine. We lasted five years and no one found out.

Its so sad for the spouses who are really in fake marriage. Often the spouse doesn't want to have sex because they do know or suspect the cheater.

[Anonymous]

Roar wrote:No paper trails. Ever. This means turning off the GPS in your phones and parking 2 blocks away (or taking a cab, but not an uber). If someone wanted to find you out, they can through a digital footprint and breadcrumbs you leave along the way.

Make sure your communication is on Text Secure or another encrypted app. http://www.businessinsider.com/the-7-safest-apps-to-send-private-and-secure-messages-2015-4#/#textsecure-1

No matter how well you hide your tracks, you can be found. Just make sure you're limiting your exposure.

As for facilities I would get a pay as you go credit card and call the hotel directly for the cheapest rates.

I won't judge, but I don't condone anything stupid just for a great piece of ass.

Why you get a friend and follow the spouse from work etc. At least once you catch a cheater you can start moving money and make plans without them knowing and continue to pretend to be clueless. Then drop the bomb.

[Anonymous]

Roar wrote:No paper trails. Ever. This means turning off the GPS in your phones and parking 2 blocks away (or taking a cab, but not an uber). If someone wanted to find you out, they can through a digital footprint and breadcrumbs you leave along the way.

Make sure your communication is on Text Secure or another encrypted app. http://www.businessinsider.com/the-7-safest-apps-to-send-private-and-secure-messages-2015-4#/#textsecure-1

No matter how well you hide your tracks, you can be found. Just make sure you're limiting your exposure.

As for facilities I would get a pay as you go credit card and call the hotel directly for the cheapest rates.

I won't judge, but I don't condone anything stupid just for a great piece of ass.

Also delete locations on your car GPS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You may want to consider just renting an apartment long-term. My friend does this, and that means it's always available. He uses it for other things too, like a place to crash if he's been out drinknig that night and can't drive home. Just a studio apartment on a long-term lease may be cheaper than getting a hotel room every time.

This is exactly what my exH did. When I kicked him out, that's the place where he moved into.

[Anonymous]

Probably cheap hotels.

As long as there is a bed & four walls then not much else is required.

Well maybe soundproofed walls if you are a screamer vs. a moaner.

[Anonymous]

Hotels
My place
Vacations together
My car
His car
Once on a trail near dulles

We usually went to hotels some were really nice all 3 and 4 star it got awkward when 1 clerk remembered us. He knew my name wasn't Mrs. Clarke. He noticed when I changed my hair lol It got to the point he let me into the room before my ap arrived.