Can I have sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread makes it pretty clear that the whole "women need emotional connection to want sex" trope is untrue.

What is it with people like you who toss out broad generalizations as if they are meaningful? Haven't you ever heard that there is an exception to every rule?

SOME women don't need an emotional connection but as a rule it's true for most. As a rule, men don't need an emotional connection, but SOME men do.

[Anonymous]

There are some bottom dwellers on this site for sure.

[Anonymous]

Sure you can! Cum on over!

[Anonymous]

I think a month and a half is way too soon....sorry! Your emotions are at a high and it would be easy to make a dumb mistake. This is a bit crass but get some toys to help pleasure yourself and use your imagination to think about who you'd like to be with. It's not as good as the real thing but it will keep you from getting hurt.

[Anonymous]

Personally I think the OP should spend some relaxing and fun time with herself and a B.O.B. of her choice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?

Call me at 202-456-1111 and ask to have your call forwarded to The Mooch. I'm recently separated and jobless so I have plenty of time to meet your needs.

[Anonymous]

You can have all the sex, OP. All of it. Have some for me too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How are you going to make the emotional connection that I hear women need before they want sex?

+1
(Getting popcorn ready as this should be really interesting)

[Anonymous]

I had sex when I was separated. Who is going to know? You're not going to be out screwing in public.

[Anonymous]

My kind of woman: low self esteem and horny. OP: I can give you five orgasms, within two hours, guaranteed. Safe and tested.

[Anonymous]

Isn't the big upside to divorce getting to sleep around? Or is only divorced men who think like this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm very recently separated - a month and a half - and reeling, vulnerable. I have had sex ONCE in the last year, and it was in January. (Part of why I left is due to my husband's cheating, which I found out about last June). Anyway, I am in no position to start dating, but really want to have sex. Should I?

NO. Now is the time to use better judgement in your life and not make those same mistakes. When people end up with a cheater it means they missed the red flags in the dating stage. They didn't see a very flawed dishonest person who probably did that many time before you met them.

Heal yourself and your self esteem. Makes positive changes in your life and when the time is right try and find a good partner.

That means take your time and establish a relationship BEFORE you have sex. The last thing you need is some creep or a horrible STD.

The fact you posted this is a red flag to your judgement.

Oh I see. It's OPs fault that her husband cheated, and she should have known that it would happen while they were dating? FFS. Your post reflects tons of issues. OP just wants to have sex. Sex feels good. Makes you feel alive. Sorry you don't get it.

[Anonymous]

I am the PP upstream that had amazing sex with her friend after a separation. It was a month and a half. What you all fail to realize is that even though the legal proceedings have just begun, the process of the marriage unraveling has been going on for a long time before that. Like even years. The divorce or separation often comes as a relief. The loneliest feeling in the world is being alone in a dead marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Post on okcupid that you want a fwb for unsafe sex. Recent test results required.

You don't have to show your face.

You'll get 1000 replies per day.

Just because it doesn't show up in a test, doesn't mean they don't still have something. They could of contracted before it showed up etc

[Anonymous]

BE_Jack wrote:

Anonymous wrote:oh god. Men are so pathetic. You don't even know what she looks like or if she's fun, but you smell blood in the water and begin to circle like sharks.

Yet you say nothing about the woman advertising she wants sex after a recent breakup? Now that's pathetic.

No, it's not. She's going to go online and search for what she wants, not hit on faceless posters on a non-dating site.