How hard is it for an Indian guy to marry outside his background?

[Anonymous]

My Indian friend ( born in India) is having a hard time dating non Indians. He's 34 and divorced. He doesn't have children. He works in IT and his income is probably 80-90 k. He lives in the suburbs of NOVA. He works out a lot and I think he's very cute. We actually dated 7 years ago. We broke up because he was very immature. He was careless with driving and other stuff. I could not trust him to keep his word. He would promise to be home by 8 pm after soccer practice and it never happened. He was always hours late. These little things drove me crazy. I'm happily married to someone else who is very punctual. I am trying to help him out with dating. Any advice on this? I think it may be better to marry within his culture. There's less of a chance he would divorce again this way.

[Anonymous]

You sound like his mom posing as an ex here to get evidence to convince him to get with another Indian girl and to be more punctual. Kind of weird.

[Anonymous]

He doesn't seem like someone I'd date and it's not because he's Indian.

[Anonymous]

His issues are unrelated to him being Indian.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound like his mom posing as an ex here to get evidence to convince him to get with another Indian girl and to be more punctual. Kind of weird.

Haha. I am friends with him and I am trying to help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound like his mom posing as an ex here to get evidence to convince him to get with another Indian girl and to be more punctual. Kind of weird.

Haha. I am friends with him and I am trying to help.

Sorry meant to write close friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My Indian friend ( born in India) is having a hard time dating non Indians. He's 34 and divorced. He doesn't have children. He works in IT and his income is probably 80-90 k. He lives in the suburbs of NOVA. He works out a lot and I think he's very cute. We actually dated 7 years ago. We broke up because he was very immature. He was careless with driving and other stuff. I could not trust him to keep his word. He would promise to be home by 8 pm after soccer practice and it never happened. He was always hours late. These little things drove me crazy. I'm happily married to someone else who is very punctual. I am trying to help him out with dating. Any advice on this? I think it may be better to marry within his culture. There's less of a chance he would divorce again this way.

So are you telling me Indian women will better tolerate and settle for an immature underachiever? Id culturally Indian women dont want better than that, then sure, it will more likely last.

[Anonymous]

Your post makes no sense.

Your asking how hard would it be for your "friend" to marry outside his race but then say he is divorced from presumably someone outside his race so you think he should marry within his race.

You also go into detail about all your issues with him that make him not a great catch and they have nothing to do with his race but his character but then you say he's having a hard time dating because of his race.

Troll

[Anonymous]

Double his income. Voila.

[Anonymous]

It is creepy that his ex-GF is trying to determine the race of his future girlfriend/wife. Let him figure this out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your post makes no sense.

Your asking how hard would it be for your "friend" to marry outside his race but then say he is divorced from presumably someone outside his race so you think he should marry within his race.

You also go into detail about all your issues with him that make him not a great catch and they have nothing to do with his race but his character but then you say he's having a hard time dating because of his race.

Troll

+1. Go away crazy anti-Indian dcum poster. It's a beautiful day. Why don't you go outside and get a life.

[Anonymous]

Is your ex still immature? If so, that's his problem. I have a friend exactly like him- Indian, good income, but very immature. But Indian women are even less tolerant of his crap than white women, so I don't think dating Indian women is a solution for your ex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Indian friend ( born in India) is having a hard time dating non Indians. He's 34 and divorced. He doesn't have children. He works in IT and his income is probably 80-90 k. He lives in the suburbs of NOVA. He works out a lot and I think he's very cute. We actually dated 7 years ago. We broke up because he was very immature. He was careless with driving and other stuff. I could not trust him to keep his word. He would promise to be home by 8 pm after soccer practice and it never happened. He was always hours late. These little things drove me crazy. I'm happily married to someone else who is very punctual. I am trying to help him out with dating. Any advice on this? I think it may be better to marry within his culture. There's less of a chance he would divorce again this way.

So are you telling me Indian women will better tolerate and settle for an immature underachiever? Id culturally Indian women dont want better than that, then sure, it will more likely last.

I don't think they will be able to figure it out because it's arranged. They will meet a few times before getting married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your post makes no sense.

Your asking how hard would it be for your "friend" to marry outside his race but then say he is divorced from presumably someone outside his race so you think he should marry within his race.

You also go into detail about all your issues with him that make him not a great catch and they have nothing to do with his race but his character but then you say he's having a hard time dating because of his race.

Troll

He's divorced from someone within his race.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is your ex still immature? If so, that's his problem. I have a friend exactly like him- Indian, good income, but very immature. But Indian women are even less tolerant of his crap than white women, so I don't think dating Indian women is a solution for your ex.

It's hard for me to say. We live in different cities now.