How hard is it for an Indian guy to marry outside his background?

[Anonymous]

How hard it is I think depends on how assimilated, or rich, or hot they are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My Indian friend ( born in India) is having a hard time dating non Indians. He's 34 and divorced. He doesn't have children. He works in IT and his income is probably 80-90 k. He lives in the suburbs of NOVA. He works out a lot and I think he's very cute. We actually dated 7 years ago. We broke up because he was very immature. He was careless with driving and other stuff. I could not trust him to keep his word. He would promise to be home by 8 pm after soccer practice and it never happened. He was always hours late. These little things drove me crazy. I'm happily married to someone else who is very punctual. I am trying to help him out with dating. Any advice on this? I think it may be better to marry within his culture. There's less of a chance he would divorce again this way.

Indian woman here. I would guess the reasons you mentioned are why he was divorced in the first place. And an Indian women will tolerate that shit no more than any other woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Indian friend ( born in India) is having a hard time dating non Indians. He's 34 and divorced. He doesn't have children. He works in IT and his income is probably 80-90 k. He lives in the suburbs of NOVA. He works out a lot and I think he's very cute. We actually dated 7 years ago. We broke up because he was very immature. He was careless with driving and other stuff. I could not trust him to keep his word. He would promise to be home by 8 pm after soccer practice and it never happened. He was always hours late. These little things drove me crazy. I'm happily married to someone else who is very punctual. I am trying to help him out with dating. Any advice on this? I think it may be better to marry within his culture. There's less of a chance he would divorce again this way.

Indian woman here. I would guess the reasons you mentioned are why he was divorced in the first place. And an Indian women will tolerate that shit no more than any other woman.

He divorced because his wife's family lied about a lot of stuff. They were married for maybe a month while he was in India. She never came to live in the US. It was really bizarre.