I agree we need to respect and appreciate student efforts based on their own interests, instead of forcing them to change those interests and see them struggle. |
would you consider it appropriate for people on this forum to use the demeaning term "prepper" if a student practiced hard and made it to their school team? It appears certain idiots on this forum take the liberty to hurl that term at hardworking and brilliant students who dedicate their after-school time towards enrichment studies. |
I coach basketball in our recreational league, and my DC in AAP may someday apply to get into TJ. I can imagine the hardwork students put in to prepare for a successful TJ experience, if admitted. Similar to academic preparation in middle school, basketball also takes a lot of effort if not more in terms of player's personal commitment and family resources towards league fees, training classes, tournament fees, sports gear, etc. Nothing is free, everything needs to be paid for and valuable time needs to be invested. Behind every successful student player is their entire family supporting them. |
I haven’t seen that comment. I have seen a lot of comments about advantaged families engaging test prep businesses. Some students have reported that employees of these businesses have asked the students to write down questions that appeared on the tests they were prepping for. I have heard this from students at TJ and also teachers who were told this by their students. These were kids from families who were educated and comfortable financially. There is nothing racist about pointing out that well off families like to be able to give their children advantages in life, and there is nothing racist about pointing out that access to a sought-after public school program should be available to kids from families with a wide spectrum of financial and educational backgrounds, not just the well-off and educated. |
Every mental health problem can be treated, but the individual has to acknowledge the problem, and be open for treatment. |
Is it only one person who is posting these basketball comments? How can you tell? I have been seeing these hateful basketball comments for years now, posted many, many times. It’s surprising that it’s only one person who appears to have the mental health disease of hatred of others. |
search for "test buy" reveals even more results with racist posts, and poster slyly uses "wealthy parents" to mean "asian american", even though most are from lower middle class. https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/jforum.page?module=search&action=search&search_forum=60&match_type=all&sort_by=time&search_keywords=test+buy |
They seem to always try to create some false equivalence with sports. |
I think you are imagining this. The old system did favor a handful of wealthy schools where outside prep was commonplace. The new system gives all residents a fair shot. |
Thank you for your volunteering as a basketball coach. Our league always has more teams than available coaches. |
Are you the one who posted these racist test buy messages? You are brainwashed into thinking that. The old system was merit based and racially blind. The new system does racial balancing. |
I think the real problem is that URMs have underperformed at just about every turn in this social experiment. |
Hmm, I wonder who the “brainwashed” person is here… Spoiler alert: it is not the person who wants all residents to have a fair shot, no matter how educated or well-off the family they happen to be born into is. |
I’m hoping it’s just one person. |
+1 |