Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m betting they decided to split, but somewhere in the midst of things got in a blowup fight and he got really pissed and decided to take it out on her by taking the ring off, etc.

Time went by, he cooled down, saw how it was affecting the kids, and decided to play nice and let her announce on her terms later this summer.

It’s over, but they aren’t ready to announce it yet.

Wow. You people really read into this stuff.

They make up stories, and then get emotionally invested in their own stories. There are some seriously wacky folks on this site.

What’s crazier than that are the people who dislike frivolous gossip but somehow find themselves in these threads any way.

I don’t know if any of you have stepped outside your house in five years but if you have, you’d know speculation is a normal thing when one of the spouses moves out of the marital home and the other likes a post about toxic relationship partners

I don’t dislike gossip, PP (and I wouldn’t insult you), but it truly is bizarre how many folks in this thread make up stories out of whole cloth…..and then defend the very stories they’ve just made up.

Weird shit. Entertaining, yes, but weird.

NP, I learned my lesson about how crazy people are on here sfter the kate and william thread. Never again.

+1 this is very entertaining for me! No the Bennifer relationship (I really don’t care about it), but the crazy stories that people post here.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

Yeah look, he pursued her and now is dumping her after less than two years of marriage? Not at all a fan of hers, but he sucks hard.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m betting they decided to split, but somewhere in the midst of things got in a blowup fight and he got really pissed and decided to take it out on her by taking the ring off, etc.

Time went by, he cooled down, saw how it was affecting the kids, and decided to play nice and let her announce on her terms later this summer.

It’s over, but they aren’t ready to announce it yet.

Wow. You people really read into this stuff.

They make up stories, and then get emotionally invested in their own stories. There are some seriously wacky folks on this site.

What’s crazier than that are the people who dislike frivolous gossip but somehow find themselves in these threads any way.

I don’t know if any of you have stepped outside your house in five years but if you have, you’d know speculation is a normal thing when one of the spouses moves out of the marital home and the other likes a post about toxic relationship partners

I don’t dislike gossip, PP (and I wouldn’t insult you), but it truly is bizarre how many folks in this thread make up stories out of whole cloth…..and then defend the very stories they’ve just made up.

Weird shit. Entertaining, yes, but weird.

NP, I learned my lesson about how crazy people are on here sfter the kate and william thread. Never again.

+1 this is very entertaining for me! No the Bennifer relationship (I really don’t care about it), but the crazy stories that people post here.

It is entertaining but sometimes the crazy stories are actually right. I remember people suggesting on the Kate and William thread that she had cancer and it sounded so far fetched. Unfortunately not.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did she go to Violet’s graduation this week?

I'm sure there would have been photos if she had been there. She was not invited. Emme and Fin go to the same school and are close friends, that's one thing, but no reason for her to attend Violet's graduation when she and Ben aren't together.

Violet didn’t even attend their wedding so I think she’s the kid who doesn’t care for J Lo. I don’t think J Lo will dare going to the graduation and bringing paparazzi there but you never know. I think Ben played her game this week to avoid her circus at the graduation

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did she go to Violet’s graduation this week?

When was Violet’s graduation through the chaos of this weekend’s media storm? If it was on Monday, J Lo had her movie premiere, although they were sighting Ben’s absence from her movie premiere as an Accountant 2 conflict in the media.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did she go to Violet’s graduation this week?

When was Violet’s graduation through the chaos of this weekend’s media storm? If it was on Monday, J Lo had her movie premiere, although they were sighting Ben’s absence from her movie premiere as an Accountant 2 conflict in the media.

Please, they have these dates well in advance. It is standard to have "outs" to attend important family events. He didn't go to the Met gala or this, both big deals for her, because he's done and doesn't want to. But her people will spin this as hard as they can, as long as they can.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did she go to Violet’s graduation this week?

When was Violet’s graduation through the chaos of this weekend’s media storm? If it was on Monday, J Lo had her movie premiere, although they were sighting Ben’s absence from her movie premiere as an Accountant 2 conflict in the media.

over the weekend or earlier Monday. He definitely would have time to make it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

Yeah look, he pursued her and now is dumping her after less than two years of marriage? Not at all a fan of hers, but he sucks hard.

Agree with this. But it's his MO and she should have known better. He love bombs, is really into the relationship for 1-2 years, then is done. She thought she was special, but no. The only reason he lasted as long as he did with Jen G was because of her determination and the kids, but he looked miserable right around the two-year mark, like clockwork. He's a mess and needs to learn how to be an adult functioning human being in a real relationship, not some fantasy in his head. He and J Lo have that in common.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

I thought she looked quiet sad and tired in the eyes too. If they're still together then this tour will break them. She's doing far too much.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

Yeah look, he pursued her and now is dumping her after less than two years of marriage? Not at all a fan of hers, but he sucks hard.

Agree with this. But it's his MO and she should have known better. He love bombs, is really into the relationship for 1-2 years, then is done. She thought she was special, but no. The only reason he lasted as long as he did with Jen G was because of her determination and the kids, but he looked miserable right around the two-year mark, like clockwork. He's a mess and needs to learn how to be an adult functioning human being in a real relationship, not some fantasy in his head. He and J Lo have that in common.

DP. The better part of me would like to think they each believed they had changed enough to make it work (I hope they do somehow). They need to burn down any remains of Bennifer 1.0 and Bennifer 2.0 and start over if they stand a chance. Who are we now? What is really important to us? Let's act in a way that supports our goals as a couple and individuals. Block out the noise.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m betting they decided to split, but somewhere in the midst of things got in a blowup fight and he got really pissed and decided to take it out on her by taking the ring off, etc.

Time went by, he cooled down, saw how it was affecting the kids, and decided to play nice and let her announce on her terms later this summer.

It’s over, but they aren’t ready to announce it yet.

Wow. You people really read into this stuff.

They make up stories, and then get emotionally invested in their own stories. There are some seriously wacky folks on this site.

What’s crazier than that are the people who dislike frivolous gossip but somehow find themselves in these threads any way.

I don’t know if any of you have stepped outside your house in five years but if you have, you’d know speculation is a normal thing when one of the spouses moves out of the marital home and the other likes a post about toxic relationship partners

I don’t dislike gossip, PP (and I wouldn’t insult you), but it truly is bizarre how many folks in this thread make up stories out of whole cloth…..and then defend the very stories they’ve just made up.

Weird shit. Entertaining, yes, but weird.

NP, I learned my lesson about how crazy people are on here sfter the kate and william thread. Never again.

+1 this is very entertaining for me! No the Bennifer relationship (I really don’t care about it), but the crazy stories that people post here.

It is entertaining but sometimes the crazy stories are actually right. I remember people suggesting on the Kate and William thread that she had cancer and it sounded so far fetched. Unfortunately not.

What crazy stories? I’m not seeing anything particularly far-fetched on these JLO threads. People are speculating that they have broken up. I don’t think that is a crazy given all the news.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

Yeah look, he pursued her and now is dumping her after less than two years of marriage? Not at all a fan of hers, but he sucks hard.

There was absolutely 100% zero doubt in my mind that this is how it would end.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

Yeah look, he pursued her and now is dumping her after less than two years of marriage? Not at all a fan of hers, but he sucks hard.

Agree with this. But it's his MO and she should have known better. He love bombs, is really into the relationship for 1-2 years, then is done. She thought she was special, but no. The only reason he lasted as long as he did with Jen G was because of her determination and the kids, but he looked miserable right around the two-year mark, like clockwork. He's a mess and needs to learn how to be an adult functioning human being in a real relationship, not some fantasy in his head. He and J Lo have that in common.

I don’t think he love bombed. There was an article about J Lo on her Super Bowl Halftime, Oscars buzz for Hustlers, Inaugurarion performance and her having her peak as an actress and performer at age 50. The journalist asked other celebrities for quotes /stories on Jennifer and Ben provided a complimentary quote. She thanked him via email and then they decided to meet after her breakup in April . That was that.

How does a hookup mean love bombing? They dated a year before he proposed. That isn’t love bombing.

He thought she was finally his equal after the Hustlers buzz but JLo is still not a Hollywood A list actress darling .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

Yeah look, he pursued her and now is dumping her after less than two years of marriage? Not at all a fan of hers, but he sucks hard.

Agree with this. But it's his MO and she should have known better. He love bombs, is really into the relationship for 1-2 years, then is done. She thought she was special, but no. The only reason he lasted as long as he did with Jen G was because of her determination and the kids, but he looked miserable right around the two-year mark, like clockwork. He's a mess and needs to learn how to be an adult functioning human being in a real relationship, not some fantasy in his head. He and J Lo have that in common.

I don’t think he love bombed. There was an article about J Lo on her Super Bowl Halftime, Oscars buzz for Hustlers, Inaugurarion performance and her having her peak as an actress and performer at age 50. The journalist asked other celebrities for quotes /stories on Jennifer and Ben provided a complimentary quote. She thanked him via email and then they decided to meet after her breakup in April . That was that.

How does a hookup mean love bombing? They dated a year before he proposed. That isn’t love bombing.

He thought she was finally his equal after the Hustlers buzz but JLo is still not a Hollywood A list actress darling .

How do you know what he was thinking? As you said they dated a year before he proposed. A year is long enough to know your partner. According to your statement you know Jlo better than him. Something must be wrong with him too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She went alone to the premiere

Not wearing her green engagement but made it a point to wear otjet greenn jewelry

She looks awful, drawn and sad. If she wasn't such a nutty egomaniac, I'd be feeling very sorry for her right now.

Yeah look, he pursued her and now is dumping her after less than two years of marriage? Not at all a fan of hers, but he sucks hard.

Agree with this. But it's his MO and she should have known better. He love bombs, is really into the relationship for 1-2 years, then is done. She thought she was special, but no. The only reason he lasted as long as he did with Jen G was because of her determination and the kids, but he looked miserable right around the two-year mark, like clockwork. He's a mess and needs to learn how to be an adult functioning human being in a real relationship, not some fantasy in his head. He and J Lo have that in common.

if you think that going along with her craziness (matching outfits, staged intimacy, crazy interviews about the biggest love story of all mankind...) "love bombing" then yes, i guess, he loved bombed her. only a certain kind of thrilling passionate love is going to tolerate her idiocies and that inevitably runs out. but if she actually behaved semi-normally i don't know that he would be in a rush to break up so soon. i could see him getting bored and cheating eventually (as with JG) but not running for the hills in this manner.