Red Flags?
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Anonymous
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Yesterday I had the day off from work. I woke up and did some chores around the house. I then packed up a cooler and went to a nearby park with my chair and speaker and toenail polish. I sat out in the sun enjoying my day off. I was texting my boyfriend a lot throughout the day. Because I had my spotify on for hours, it drained my phone battery. I went back home to charge my phone. I had told him my phone died and that I was home. I then left my house (with my phone) and went to the store and to pick up my daughter from school.
Upon driving up the road to my house on the way home, I saw him pass me. He had driven by my house. I texted him a jokingly text saying, "Stalk much?" thinking it was funny. He then broke up with me because he said that I lied about being home when I wasn't. He is correct in that I did not tell him that I had left to go pick up my daughter from school and to run to the store. He said that I was acting "Too nice" all day and he knew "something was up because I called him 'babe' " He blocked me and said I was cheating on him. Told me I wasn't a "Godly" person and that now I am a "ghost" to him. Is this utter ridiculous? Should I forgive him? Was in in the wrong at all for not telling him I left to go to the store? |
Anonymous
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Do you need to ask? He's not normal and he gave you a big red flag. Never contact him, he's a nut job OP.
Godly, lol. Sounds like a religious nut to boot. |
Anonymous
| Ok, he sounds psycho. You're better off without him. |
Anonymous
| I'm shocked you are actually asking. Definitely do not get back with him and do not have any contact. He sounds scary. |
Anonymous
| OP this is the kind of guy that will make the news one day. |
Anonymous
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1) I don't see where he's asked for your forgiveness, so no, you don't forgive him.
2) Count your lucky stars you dodged that bullet, because that guy is a nightmare. |
Anonymous
| Oh my goodness let him go. And feel zero guilt about it. This is not someone you want to expose to your daughter. |
Anonymous
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Why in the world would you need to tell him you are leaving your house? Does he control you?
This is information that is unnecessary. OP there are SO MANY other great men out there! Let him try to find a woman who will let him control her that is the kind of relationship this man is wanting from you. RUN DONT WALK |
Anonymous
| Yes, OP. Red flag hanging from a pole mounted with sirens and flashing red lights. This guy is bad news. Please stay broken up and don't have further contact. For your sake and your child's. |
Anonymous
| It is inconsiderate to play amplified music in a public park. |
Anonymous
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buh-bye!!!
don't accept him back when he comes crawling...that's the next step "babe I'm so sorry, it will never happen again" 
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Anonymous
| Um...he is unhinged. You have a child to consider. No way do you go back to him! |
Anonymous
+1,Be grateful he is gone!! Sounds like the kind of guy that could become a nightmare for you but more importantly, your daughter. How can this even be a question, FFS!!! |
Anonymous
Exactly. He'll be back. Don't let him back in your life. |
Anonymous
| Big red flag. Keep your daughter away and don't introduce bfs like this! |