No guns within 10 miles of the schools, guns must be locked in safes if you have kid in the house, gun owner must be certified on gun safety yearly, kids with guns in the home go through a gun detector door. If you are caught breaking any of these rules you go to jail... and pay a huge fine so we can pay to police this... but we don't even put rapist in jail so we won't be putting gun nuts in jail. |
Ok, and now back to the real world. How do you propose that happens? You'd need police regularly searching all homes and patrolling. Are you ok with regular home searches. They should have metal and other detectors for everyone entering the school. As well as SRO's. And, this has nothing to do with MCPS. The question is what more can MCPS do to keep students and staff safe. |
You keep bringing up the two same incidents but those would have happened either way. There are many other stories about SRO's saving the day and yet you choose to ignore them. SRO's who are good, do make a difference. Most research shows that. |
I do not want my kids to participate in restorative justice. They don't need to be revictimized by the bully or attacker who gets no punishment. Get these kids out of the mainstream school and start giving consequences since parents will not. |
Same here. I don’t want my child to participate in RJ either, and I would block any attempt to have my child participate in one. I’m a teacher and I’ve seen firsthand how useless it is. I’ve also seen how cruel it is to the victims. I want real consequences, and that includes if my child is the perpetrator. |
Our schools uses RJ. It's amazing when used correctly. You are really missing out. |
Clearly you don’t know what restorative justice is or how it works in most situations and are instead just parroting things you heard in DCUM. |
No, we aren't missing out on anything. Are you the parent of a bully? |
Teacher here. I’ve seen RJ used many times over recent years. I’ve never seen it work. You do realize the students openly mock it, right? I’ve had students act out in front of me and say, “yeah? What are you gonna do about it? Put me in a f-ing circle?” It’s a joke. The kids know it’s a joke. There are only a few idealistic (naive) adults who still think it’s worthwhile. |
Please give us an example. |
+1 My teens have stated that no one takes RJ seriously. Do the people who come up with this BS even know teens at all? Idiots. |
Probably works for 5 year olds, not 15 yr olds. -parent of teens |
I do know. My child was subjected to it without my permission and they were really upset over it and it was bad enough where they didn't want to go to school. The other child got off with a fake apology and kept tormenting my child. The school wouldn't allow my child to change classrooms and it was a huge fight the following year to get them in separate classrooms. |
If kids haven't learned right from wrong as teens, they need strong consequences not a discussion on their behavior with the child they hurt. |
+100 |