Asking for a friend
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| I love it when my husband fills up my car for me without me asking! |
| Kiss her every day. Notice little things. Don't hold grudges. Touch her when you're not working up to sex, on the arm, hand, hair. Little caresses are very special. |
| I give my wife random hugs, hold her tight while typically she is working in the kitchen and then disappear before she understands why I am doing it. Also send her random smiley texts. Childish things like that. |
| Cuddle her to sleep, without trying to get sex. Give her a kiss goodbye and say you love her when you leave. If she has a messy car clean it out for her. Fix something around the house you've put off without her asking. Pinch her butt. Tell her she looks nice. Being her flowers. Tell her her food is good. Tell her she is a good mom. Babysit the kids and encourage her to go out when you see she is spent. |
| Listen to her. Do what she likes (not what you think she would like). |
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Thank her for the things she does, don't imply she does a crappy job by redoing them. Thank her if she cooks dinner even if you don't like it. Fill her car up with gas so she doesn't have to go to the gas station. Wash her car. Vacuum the car! That would be amazing. Mow the lawn. Initiate and organize a date.
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My DH gets me coffee in the morning. That's all I need. Love him for that!
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| Pull his weight with chores and childcare, that's all I would wish for |
| Don't complain, be grateful. Don't always want something done for him. |
Why aren't you also working in the kitchen? |
Message: don't try to be affectionate. You're doing it wrong. |
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Grabbing a stack of plates out of my hands and placing it up in the kitchen cabinet for me. Asking me about my day with a smile on his face. Hearing him say something sweet about me to the children when I'm not in the room. Bringing up a memory out of nowhere that lets me know I matter, something small like the dress I wore when we were dating or something that made him laugh two years ago. Telling me I'm a good mom. And, of course, bringing me my favorite coffee just because. |
| Just notice how much she's doing.. |
Written by a woman who is overworked and constantly bitching to her husband to "share the load". |