Should I be honest with my mom’s grief counselor?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The only reason you should not respond honestly to the counselor is if you want to escalate the drama.

You have beliefs about your childhood that are impacting your behavior today. Tell the therapist why you decided that it "just wasn't healthy" to "even speak with" your mom. The counselor will figure out next steps with your mom from there.

I am curious why she has a "grief" counselor though. It makes me wonder what you're not saying.

She may have a grief counselor because no one in her life let's her treat them like crap anymore. So she creates drama and makes herself the victim.