Husband says I’m bossing him around. Help?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - are you there? What do think of the advice you’ve gotten?

This post was from 2020.

Wait, this is excellent for data mining purposes - OP are you still with him? Did you end up having kids with him? How are things going?

I swear I'm going to show my daughters so many of the posts on here so they can see all the red flags of marrying a loser like this. Luckily they have a great example in their dad but one of my biggest fears is my daughters ending up with a man child like so many on DCUM seem to have done. (I don't have any sons).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband doesn’t do simple things around the house and for himself and then claims I’m bossing him around? For example, I’ll cook dinner and serve it. He gets up from the table and goes to play video games. I ask him “hey do you mind putting your plate in the sink?” And he gets huffy with me. Another time is when I’m in bed already, he’s in the living room watching tv and gets up to come to bed. When he comes in the room, he’s getting under the covers and I said “honey, are you going to turn the tv off?” He gets huffy again and says “I’m sick of you bossing me around”.

Same response when I told him he had food on his face and to wipe his left cheek.

Generally I have a pleasant demeanor and am not accusatory or anything. What do you do to not come across bossy?

Don’t have kids with him.

He’s a loser ManChild.

You will be his Mommy, helper and savior your whole time together whilst he yells at and berates you.

Oh and calls you bossy.

[Anonymous]

My wife gets mad when I do all the things you claim your husband doesn’t, because they aren’t done on her schedule.

[Anonymous]

This doesnt sound real.

Who gets up from the family room and just walks away without turning the TV off?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband doesn’t do simple things around the house and for himself and then claims I’m bossing him around? For example, I’ll cook dinner and serve it. He gets up from the table and goes to play video games. I ask him “hey do you mind putting your plate in the sink?” And he gets huffy with me. Another time is when I’m in bed already, he’s in the living room watching tv and gets up to come to bed. When he comes in the room, he’s getting under the covers and I said “honey, are you going to turn the tv off?” He gets huffy again and says “I’m sick of you bossing me around”.

Same response when I told him he had food on his face and to wipe his left cheek.


Generally I have a pleasant demeanor and am not accusatory or anything. What do you do to not come across bossy?

TROLL FAIL.

Come on.