Would you date a rich plumber?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m going to take an unpopular view here. But bear with me. I’ve been around a lot of the trades and while you may find yourself attracted to a specific person, it’s the entire lifestyle and their buddies that might be a problem. Construction and the trades tend to be a respectable way for people with a troubled background to make a living. Nothing wrong with that. But are you going to want to socialize with the plumber’s friends, their families, plumber’s family? It’s a different world if you’re used to a UMC background of white-collar educated people.

Don't worry, the hot, successful guys in the trades wouldn't give your snobby ass the time of day. I know your type. Now matter how attractive you may be, it all goes out the window as soon as you open your mouth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can he take care of all of my plumbing problems? 😜

PLumbers motto: I put my face where you put your a$$. True story.

[Anonymous]

Sure, if he was cute, kind and intelligent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wish I hadn’t been such a snob when I was in my 20s and early 30s. I couldn’t have imagined dating a guy who hadn’t gone to college. Now I can see that some of the smartest, kindest and hottest men I know are ones who never set foot on a college campus.

Me too

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. Because he will still be living the blue collar life in terms of activities, beliefs and interests. Also will most likely still have the same blue collar friends. Nothing wrong with that but is is a different lifestyle from the white collar educated world. Rednecks with money baby! Have at it but be warned that lifestyle most likely will not change.

The guy who painted our house is super interesting. Loves jazz clubs, very fun to talk to. I've met waaaaaay more boring people working in offices. At least blue collar people often have the TIME for other interests!

[Anonymous]

The rich guy might not work on his personality, as the hot girl may not as well

[Anonymous]

Why would it matter if he is either rich or a Plummer?

What matters is finding someone that can make you happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't date anyone if all I knew about him was his profession and his income. If the question is really would I NOT date someone because he's a plumber, that's a different question. I have a career and lots of interests and I have been involved with blue collar men before. The issue for me is whether or not he likes his job -- or at least values what it can provide him, and whether he respects mine and appreciates that my career interests genuinely drive and satisfy me. Beyond that, it's whether we share common interests and values -- which is always going to be true for any relationship.

+1.

[Anonymous]

I would if we were compatible. I care more about interests than degrees. But I wouldn't date a man who was negative towards me for having an advanced degree and some UMC interests. Some working class families can have these close-minded, negative attitudes and that's a deal breaker for me.

[Anonymous]

Heck yeah!! Plumbers are expensive.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Especially a nice kind handsome rich plumber. Doesn’t even have to be rich just financially stable and responsible. My ex was a rich “white color” professional. But a complete jerk and financial mess

[Anonymous]

I have a huge crush on my electrician.

[Anonymous]

Actually that sounds awesome. Wealthy AND handy around the house is a rare combination

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m going to take an unpopular view here. But bear with me. I’ve been around a lot of the trades and while you may find yourself attracted to a specific person, it’s the entire lifestyle and their buddies that might be a problem. Construction and the trades tend to be a respectable way for people with a troubled background to make a living. Nothing wrong with that. But are you going to want to socialize with the plumber’s friends, their families, plumber’s family? It’s a different world if you’re used to a UMC background of white-collar educated people.

Don't worry, the hot, successful guys in the trades wouldn't give your snobby ass the time of day. I know your type. Now matter how attractive you may be, it all goes out the window as soon as you open your mouth.

As someone who married into a blue collar family, what one person calls snobbishness is actually reality. Yes, we know there is someone who never went to college who writes beautiful poetry, travels the world, and speaks five languages. OK, I get it. But with my in-laws, it's Trumpers, NRA members, conspiracy theory believers, hate blacks/not crazy about Jews, etc.

[Anonymous]

It depends on his butt crack!