Pushups in store bathroom as punishment

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:And she had her ten year old in a ladies bathroom! My ten year old would die of humiliation if his friends knew about it.

Hmm I never even thought of this. Like hell my 10 year old son would come in the ladies bathroom with me!!

It's all just so wrong especially given his difficulties. Like the shaming in the dirty bathroom aspect really was a strong part of the discipline.

Yes .. the point of the discipline was humiliation. It being published all over the internet was just bonus.

Yes, this is what rubs me the wrong way about it. Discipline shouldn't be about humiliation.

I don't think it was about humiliation per se. If she wanted to really humiliate him, she would've made him do it in the aisle. She took him some place where there was some privacy, and obviously that can't be the men's room. And she probably didn't want to leave the store just yet because she still had things to get done. So, the next best place was the women's bathroom.

I don't know if she knew a woman was recording it, but as far as talking about it on social media, she probably 1. wanted a bit of fame 2. felt she was attacked and wanted to defend herself.

She had things to do, like buying materials for her wig?

[Anonymous]

Are we going to discuss the fact that she’s obviously babysitting another kid? That kid she’s holding (not comfortably) clearly isn’t her child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are we going to discuss the fact that she’s obviously babysitting another kid? That kid she’s holding (not comfortably) clearly isn’t her child.

It is her kid according to the article.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Going to Hobby Lobby is punishment enough.

Pretty much. Anything else is overkill.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:https://www.cnn.com/2020/02/27/us/hobby-lobby-parenting-trnd/index.html

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Parents, have you ever asked your kiddo to do something or behave properly and they've ignored you? Yeah, you're not alone.

To combat that behavior, one Texas mom had her son drop down to pushup position in the middle of a shopping trip at a craft store.”

What say you? Would you ever do this?

Are they HER kids?? Maybe she’s the sitter.

[Anonymous]

According to a follow up the kid is embarrassed by all the press about this . Gee you think?

[Anonymous]

Good for her. That kid will learn valuable lessons.

Some of these responses is what is wrong with America. Too many lenient parents never punishing their kids, and you wonder why kids are they way they are today? No manners or respect for anyone else. I'm tired of parents with the " my kids just doesn't understand", " we don't want to punish him fro fear of self-esteem issues", or wanting to be your kids friend instead of a parent.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:A normal parent would have whispered in the kid’s ear to settle down, quickly use the restroom, and then leave the store. When kids act up, you take them home. You don’t cause a scene. You lecture the child privately. You never reward bad behavior; you just go home.

WTH is wrong with people? This is why we have such poorly behaved kids and adults: bad parenting.

Going home is rewarding bad behavior. The kid is bored out of his mind at Hobby Lobby.

+1 I never understood this.

Kids *hate* running errands with their parents. They don't want to go. They act up at the store, and so you leave to "punish" them? That makes zero sense. No wonder there are so many kids who act up at stores.

Leaving is a consequence of the child wants something and is told no and then won’t stop screaming about it. But otherwise you leave as to avoid causing a scene in the store and humiliating the kid. And trust me my kids do not like me consequences when we have to leave a store (in fact they are 7 and 10 and we haven’t had to leave in years because they don’t want to get grounded from everything fun for a week).

[Anonymous]

I say good for her. Kids these days don't know consequences because they are being raised by permissive parents. The mom said by learning to respect her, he will respect others, which I agree on. So many parents are being soft on their kids and they wonder why their brats turn into ill mannered and disrespectful kids. Parents need to go back to discipling like kids 10-20 years ago. You never heard of many instances like we do today because they were taught from an early age how to act. I hope she doesn't listen to these permissive parents, and keep on teaching her son good behavior, manners, and respect.

[Anonymous]

This is trashy and low class. The entire thing. The public punishment, letting someone photograph it, talking to the media about it. I am embarrassed for this woman and especially the poor kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is trashy and low class. The entire thing. The public punishment, letting someone photograph it, talking to the media about it. I am embarrassed for this woman and especially the poor kid.

And that poor kid she is holding like a giant sack of flour under her arm. The child looks too old to need to be carried anyhow. Was that one trying to run away from us, thus she got the football hold?

[Anonymous]

I don't understand letting your son get down on the floor of the women's bathroom low enough to see into the stalls. Leaving everything else out (touching the floor, public punishment, whether this is a punishment that works) isn't that how you raise a peeping Tom?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is trashy and low class. The entire thing. The public punishment, letting someone photograph it, talking to the media about it. I am embarrassed for this woman and especially the poor kid.

You are an awful person. Her kid has ADHD and instead of using the special needs trump card-as in: oh my rich, white kid can't help himself so it isn't his fault he is touching everything and knocking over things- she actually disciplined her kid. He then behaved in the store. No wonder there are so many bratty, entitled kids running amok in stores.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is trashy and low class. The entire thing. The public punishment, letting someone photograph it, talking to the media about it. I am embarrassed for this woman and especially the poor kid.

You are an awful person. Her kid has ADHD and instead of using the special needs trump card-as in: oh my rich, white kid can't help himself so it isn't his fault he is touching everything and knocking over things- she actually disciplined her kid. He then behaved in the store. No wonder there are so many bratty, entitled kids running amok in stores.

You sound trashy and low class too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't understand letting your son get down on the floor of the women's bathroom low enough to see into the stalls. Leaving everything else out (touching the floor, public punishment, whether this is a punishment that works) isn't that how you raise a peeping Tom?

It's also how you raise a bully.