What would you say to an old AP/lover?

[Anonymous]

#1 miss you and you had the sexiest ass!
#2 Sorry my wife found out
#3 hope you get your finances straightened out
#4 see you Thursday

[Anonymous]

After seeing you on social media you're still a loser. Glad I didn't stay with you.

Didn't know I was scraping the bottom of the barrel when I met you. Thankfully those blinders came off rather quickly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:#1 miss you and you had the sexiest ass!
#2 Sorry my wife found out
#3 hope you get your finances straightened out
#4 see you Thursday

What do you mean had?

[Anonymous]

This is exactly what I would say.
@ time of our relationship/his affair I was single & he was married. I broke it off when I met DH. He tried to tell me that we should keep it going. That we would both have marriages & each other. I should have listened to him. Now I’m 8 years int a nice guy/boring marriage and wish I’d kept the AP around. We had great sex, great conversation, and a natural fondness for each other.

Would you be okay if your "nice guy" had an AP with whom he had great sex, conversations, and for whom he felt a natural fondness? I always want to know what the poster is feeling when he or she writes something like this post.

For this poster, please do not tell us that your DH cannot find someone who thinks he is great sex or is great conversation. There are many women out there who would love to have a nice guy as their DH and would not regret being with him at all.

[Anonymous]

Nothing. I have a life.

[Anonymous]

Hey, we sure had fun, didn't we? Hope all is well in your life.

I have this conversation with a few of them now and then.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hey, we sure had fun, didn't we? Hope all is well in your life.

I have this conversation with a few of them now and then.

I’d prefer you not. If you’re that guy, just ignore me forever. Like we never even met.

[Anonymous]

How about a quick walk down memory lane?

[Anonymous]

How about a slow walk down memory lane?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How about a slow walk down memory lane?

That would be nice but I only have 30 mins

[Anonymous]

You were great in bed when you wanted to be, but you always put yourself first, even when you said you were putting me first. You were also the smallest guy I have ever been with.

I should have believed you when you told me you couldn’t fall in love with me. You were right there and then pulled away and it was so confusing. But you did warn me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the great time, and more importantly, taking our secret to the grave!

abortion?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the great time, and more importantly, taking our secret to the grave!

abortion?

More likely their affair, yes?

[Anonymous]

I hate everybody here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

This is exactly what I would say.
@ time of our relationship/his affair I was single & he was married. I broke it off when I met DH. He tried to tell me that we should keep it going. That we would both have marriages & each other. I should have listened to him. Now I’m 8 years int a nice guy/boring marriage and wish I’d kept the AP around. We had great sex, great conversation, and a natural fondness for each other.

Would you be okay if your "nice guy" had an AP with whom he had great sex, conversations, and for whom he felt a natural fondness? I always want to know what the poster is feeling when he or she writes something like this post.

For this poster, please do not tell us that your DH cannot find someone who thinks he is great sex or is great conversation. There are many women out there who would love to have a nice guy as their DH and would not regret being with him at all.

Yes. I want my husband to be happy. What kind of person doesn’t want their spouse happy?
I find that many women are terrified of anything other than monogamy. My husband and I work well on many levels. The sex isn’t great and conversation has grown stale. I’d love for both of us to be fulfilled.