What would you say to an old AP/lover?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wish you’d conquer your demons and not overdose in LA.

Too late to say now. RIP.

I bet your spouse wasn't too broken up about that. And hope you got tested!

[Anonymous]

You were the best sex I ever had

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are the worst mistake I ever made.

Oh that sucks! I know a lady who wrecked her life in 12 years by doing that. I never would have predicted it.

[Anonymous]

I every time my Herpes flairs up I think of you!

[Anonymous]

I love you and wish you loved me, or ever told me how you felt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can I feed you your favorite sushi in bed listening to awesome music?

Could we fall asleep trying to find something to watch on TV? But we never found it, we just slept. I always wanted to sleep with you.

Sex was hot. I caught feelings and wanted more. I wanted to cuddle and fall asleep together. That’s when I knew I’m not wired for sport sex. I wanted more than hot sex. I wanted to know everything about him.

But you asked OP. I wanted an impossible relationship. I wanted to date this man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love you and wish you loved me, or ever told me how you felt.

I think of you often and wonder if you ever think of me at exactly the same time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wish you’d conquer your demons and not overdose in LA.

Too late to say now. RIP.

I bet your spouse wasn't too broken up about that. And hope you got tested!

Spouse cheated well before I ever did, several times. The AP who died got hooked on painkillers many years after our fling. And all addicts aren’t promiscuous, that’s for the movies. Some are functional, but deal with demons or (as in AP’s case) gets a bad batch of the vice.

We ( AP and I ) knew each other in high school. Was a nostalgic thing at the time that brought comfort to us both at the time. I don’t regret the fling with the AP one bit. My ex on the other hand....

[Anonymous]

Grow up. It was just a fling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love you and wish you loved me, or ever told me how you felt.

I think of you often and wonder if you ever think of me at exactly the same time.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can I feed you your favorite sushi in bed listening to awesome music?

Could we fall asleep trying to find something to watch on TV? But we never found it, we just slept. I always wanted to sleep with you.

Sex was hot. I caught feelings and wanted more. I wanted to cuddle and fall asleep together. That’s when I knew I’m not wired for sport sex. I wanted more than hot sex. I wanted to know everything about him.

But you asked OP. I wanted an impossible relationship. I wanted to date this man.

Yes. The sushi in the bed, no, but this^ , yes.

[Anonymous]

F you for being 50 and sleeping with me when I was 24.

I was a willing participant but you had to clearly know I wasn’t doing well emotionally. You hurt me tremendously. I have PTSD from you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:F you for being 50 and sleeping with me when I was 24.

I was a willing participant but you had to clearly know I wasn’t doing well emotionally. You hurt me tremendously. I have PTSD from you.

I'm sorry, I'm sorry that happened to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love you and wish you loved me, or ever told me how you felt.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You were the best sex I ever had

This is exactly what I would say.
@ time of our relationship/his affair I was single & he was married. I broke it off when I met DH. He tried to tell me that we should keep it going. That we would both have marriages & each other. I should have listened to him. Now I’m 8 years int a nice guy/boring marriage and wish I’d kept the AP around. We had great sex, great conversation, and a natural fondness for each other.