Encouraging my teen to get drivers license

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It should be expected Op. Learning to drive is a needed adult skill. Expect it. It's part of your responsibility, as the parent, to see that it happens and see that he learns well and is a good driver.

Well, not so much needed anymore. Especially in big cities. If public transportation can’t get you there, Lyft and Uber can. It comes at a cost but so does insuring a teenager to drive.

I agree with big cities of course. But I want my kid to have the option or at least know WTF to do if they need to get from A to B and a car is their only option. Stranded at airport in middle of nowhere, renting a house in some fantastic countryside, crusing around an island vacation somewhere etc. I don't even have a car but would feel lost without knowing I can drive

[Anonymous]

Sweet mother of jesus what are we becoming? . . . You are not helping your kids by indulging this nonsense

I love this response!

[Anonymous]

Yeah, my kid is 18 and will be off to college soon. Got his permit 2 years ago and has shown literally no interest aside from a few random parking lot lessons. There’s no car waiting for him, and he couldn’t afford maintaining one, much less insuring one, even if there was. There are enough bad drivers on the road already.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Sweet mother of jesus what are we becoming? . . . You are not helping your kids by indulging this nonsense

I love this response!

There are plenty of places where it is seemed crazy to give keys to a car that could kill or maim and yet those same kids aren't allowed to vote here.

I get it America is a car culture and it is important to learn however if you don't I don't think it is a moral failure or sign of any indulgence.

What happened to different strokes for different folks? So. If we don't live the way you think we should than we are losers?

My kids are getting their liscences but a bit later do I am not talking about my family.

[Anonymous]

I don’t get this at all, unless it’s part of a larger issue with a kid shirking responsibilities. I live in DC, my kids were born here, and I try to spend as little time as possible in the car. Driving is, statistically, one of the worst things you can do for your health and for the environment. I think it would be great if my kids didn’t get their licenses at 16. They’re tweens and already adept at public transportation, so it’s not like they’re sheltered or needy.