| Oberlin also does much better with merit aid. |
Hey, cool gal (or guy), if people who talk like you favor Washington and Lee then I’ve made my case. |
That makes your case that Washington and Lee doesn’t have a good academic reputation? Hey, where did you go to school? |
| Wooster and St. Olaf both offered my son a nice discount though I’ve no idea what constitutes a safety anymore. We’ve seen way too many kids lately getting rejected from schools that seem safe, as in at or above the 75th percentile. |
| I think the Grinnell dummy is the Middlebury dummy. Same dumb arguments and poor writing. |
| A weird perspective from the other side of this: DS did all the work of applying to schools, found reaches, targets, likelies he loved on all levels (including several discussed by OP and posters). He ended up getting into most, including what was ostensibly his first choice --a reach SLAC. But I almost think we went overboard finding schools he loved because it was GRUELING for him to decide, he ended up going for--at the last minute May 1-- the reach which was the highest ranked of the group. But now he's genuinely struggling with a kind of buyer's remorse. He loved his "likelies" and feels like he couldn't really choose one because he got a good deal at a "better" (more prestigious) school so now he's not really sure he made the decision truly on his own accord. He's wondering if he could still change is mind, if the scholarships would still be there for him if he did. It's probably just that this is the first time he's had to make a big decision and he's grieving the paths not taken, but it's a little hard for him to have worked so hard to get into a top school (that really does seem like a good fit for him) and mainly feeling kind of letdown, depleted and anxious. Hopefully this too shall pass and he'll re-appreciate his good fortune ...but I think he's also experiencing the hamster wheel of strong students seeking high-ranking schools, and this glimpse of possibly getting off of it, but then deciding not to, --it's done a bit of a number on him. We're just watching now how his mindset evolves. I initially told myself, let's give this a week and revisit. It's been a week now, now I'm thinking give it another week...But I'm wishing we played down the 'finding tons of schools he loves' thing--but then had he not gotten into good ones we'd be in a different situation... |
Yes my DC recently graduated (had the presidential scholarship as well as a departmental one) and still has friends there. It is true that the college, like many small colleges, has experienced financial issues in the last couple years. However the administration has taken several actions to address and I have confidence that Beloit will be fine. I seriously cannot say enough good things about the academics, the professors and the opportunities DC had. Even the alum network despite how small the college is - or maybe bc of that - is fabulous. Happy to answer any more questions, OP. |
NP. what was his/her major? |
My DC was similarly down to the wire, and actually one school let us know the offer still stands. |
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My child picked the lowest ranked school she got into (which made me nervous) and she is thriving there.
I was proud that she could put the rankings aside and recognize a fit that would work for her. I think she wanted off of the hamster wheel also. Don't get me wrong, she still has to work and is learning a ton. But she is happy, and has achieved a healthier balance than she had in high school. |
Is she being challenged? Is the work difficult? |
Geology and Physics |