DH received a Valentines Day card from another woman

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is she Asian? What’s their actual relationship? It’s closer to lunar new year than it is to Valentines. You know, red envelopes aren’t always what you think.

She's not Asian, although I suppose it could be a lunar new year card. But that's still weird.

Not if she's in the habit of sending cards for all occasions. It would make sense, actually. In Asia, people give New Year's cards or the little red enveloped with a crisp new bill. In Japan, there's no money, but you have the social obligation to send a card to literally all your private and professional acquaintance.

So what you do is that you open it because you "thought it was a Lunar New Year's card". And who knows, maybe there's money in it

OP already said she wasn’t Asian. But thanks for white-splaining.

I am the PP you responded to, and *I* am Asian (and don't send cards). This woman, not Asian, is in the habit of sending cards for all occasions, according to OP. Why wouldn't she send a Lunar New Year card too?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is she Asian? What’s their actual relationship? It’s closer to lunar new year than it is to Valentines. You know, red envelopes aren’t always what you think.

She's not Asian, although I suppose it could be a lunar new year card. But that's still weird.

Not if she's in the habit of sending cards for all occasions. It would make sense, actually. In Asia, people give New Year's cards or the little red enveloped with a crisp new bill. In Japan, there's no money, but you have the social obligation to send a card to literally all your private and professional acquaintance.

So what you do is that you open it because you "thought it was a Lunar New Year's card". And who knows, maybe there's money in it

OP already said she wasn’t Asian. But thanks for white-splaining.

Thanks for pulling out the race card.