This. I would add, your kid is old enough to see the downsides of capitalism as practiced in the United States, and may have a strong moral sense that exploitation and extreme inequality are wrong. As an earlier poster noted, Marx is actually quite eloquent on the miseries suffered by the working class and the ways that power structures are maintained. And simplistic answers are attractive (on both ends of the spectrum). She's trying on ideas, and as long as she's not in a bubble and is willing to read other views, she'll be fine. She's figuring things out. I'd engage with her--ask her what's she reading. Ask her questions about it. Encourage her to read history and think about how different ideologies (communism, socialism, fascism, capitalism, feudalism) actually worked (or didn't). Compare what people wrote to what actually happened when their ideas were implemented. (I read Adam Smith. Turns out, the guy was not in favor of unregulated markets and unfettered capitalism! And Marx thought that communism should and would happen in advanced industrial societies, which Russia was not.) And I don't know what reaction you think you could have that would be remotely constructive, other than encouraging her to keep reading and thinking critically. If you oppose it, she's likely to just dig in. Don't patronize her and treat it like a phase, but keep in mind that it may well be--as she continues to learn and mature, her views are likely to become more nuanced. |
No, he didn't. Nobody survived real communism because communism has never been a society or a system anywhere in the world. You can't survive utopia that never existed. It seems that OP's DD is smarter than most pps here. OP, you should read about Trotsky some, so you don't seem stupid to your own child? |
I have friends who espouse communist ideals and call themselves communists and they do often wax lyrical about the current and previous so-called communist regimes. All that tells me is that they are students of philosophy, not students of history. In high school, a friend of mine was a devote anarchist. High school is a great time to be an anarchist or whatever because its safe and you can explore new ideas. He was over it by college. Don't worry about it. |
No, actually, it doesn't. It sounds like OP's child is a typical immature follower who will go along with any trend of the day, especially for shock value. |
OP said the kid reads centrist and right-wing authors so that suggests someone with a more open mind than say, you, pp. |
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Well, I was a conservative Republican during high school. My salad days, when I was green in judgment.....thankfully, I grew out of that uneducated and ill-informed phase with better education. Like Communism, conservatism has more to do with philosophy and less to do with reality, although, unfortunately, like so-called Communism in practice, it has also had devastating effects on societies around the world.
Cheer up, OP. There’s hope for your DC, especially once s/he moves away from your McCarthyist household. Oh, and with any luck s/he has already studied the Constitution and Bill of Rights to understand exactly how un-American your views are. |
“They”? It sounds like your child is also “non-binary” or something like that. You have a lot on your plate with all this, OP. |
Hilarious about wondering if it's legal. Anyway, there will be a large socialist movement in this country sooner or later. When the top 1% holds 40% of the assets, and the top 3 wealthiest Americans hold more wealth than the bottom 50% of the entire population combined. The inequality grows worse every year. Problem is people who *think* they are wealthy or well off dont recognize what is happening and where it will ultimately lead. History repeats itself. Howard Schultz is a great example. Comes on the scene with more bootstrapping propaganda but fails to recognize that his housing growing up was paid for because of higher taxes on the truly wealthy. The Republicans have reversed what made the middle class possible- those higher taxes on wealthy. Killing the middle class. I'm not a socialist but a student of history. Stop voting Republican or we will ultimately have socialism. |
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OP, just engage your kid in argument. Point out the negative effects of communist regimes. If you think he's coming to the wrong conclusion because he's not been educated enough, educate him. Don't yell or lecture - engage.
If he doesn't change his mind, oh well. He has a right to his political beliefs. However, if he is personally advocating for a violent overthrow of the government, you have a duty to warn him to be careful - you can get denied employment in government jobs for that. |
OP here: I was just trying to keep things neutral since I didn't think gender mattered in this question. I think I might have slipped up and said "her" once, yes my DC is female, but I really don't see how that's relevant here. |
My husband's parents did this here in the free-enterprise United States. Actually it was WD-40, but that's mostly kerosene. |
OK, that made me laugh. |
Is this legal? Really? Did you graduate from high school? |
| This is a troll from Loudoun. |
Higher taxes made the middle class? The propaganda is strong with this one. |