Not invited to cousin’s wedding

[Anonymous]

If you need closure, reach out to a trusted family member and say, “I saw pictures online of Larla’s wedding. I was surprised to see all the cousins there when I’d been told it was aunts and uncles only. I don’t think we’ll be visiting the west coast anytime soon so please tell her I wish her well when you see her.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I should add I’m married but we eloped because I didn’t want to not invite some family as that’s just very hurtful in my opinion. So it was just us.

I wouldn’t care if it was a small wedding but inviting everyone and all the kids cousins it’s like ouch.

Honestly, you just need to deal. You chose to just not invite anyone to your wedding to avoid hurt feelings. Ok. Everyone is not going to make that choice. There was a cut somewhere and you just didn't make it. Maybe since you eloped she figured you just aren't into weddings. Have there been other family weddings you did not attend that you were invited to? As someone else said, maybe it was a geography thing. By your own admission, you have not been out that way since you had kids - maybe she figured you aren't into traveling any more. Maybe she heard you were gossiping about her fiance.

[Anonymous]

Get off Facebook and do nothing since you were not invited or told about the wedding from your cousin. When your cousin and her fiance visited you, it was apparent that you did not care for him. He probably didn’t like you and they decided they didn’t want you at their wedding. Accept their decision and move on.