Do you judge a woman by her husband?

[Anonymous]

No, I don't judge people by the physical attractiveness of their spouse. I judge them on the content of their character. My DH, 50, is dumpy now and his hair is just starting to thin. Seems most of the weight he's gained has gone to his neck - he has no neck! Yet, when I look at him, I don't think of his physical flaws. I think of his great qualities that kept me interested in him and what great memories I have of us together. I still find him incredibly attractive and there's no one I'd rather be with.

When I see a couple with an 'attractiveness imbalance', I assume the 'ugly' person has great qualities that are more attractive than their physical form.