Husband's Parents very Clearly Love one Drandson, but not the Other

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

There are no inheritance worries. DH and his brother (and brother's kids) have a small sum of money coming from the will, but the majority of Inlaw's money is going to DS14. We know this because DH is a lawyer and helped draft their will.

And for those worried about DS15, we try to make sure he knows he is loved just as much as DS14.

By helping to set things up so his little brother inherits everything?

This has to be a troll; no one is this much of an idiot.

I really hope so.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

There are no inheritance worries. DH and his brother (and brother's kids) have a small sum of money coming from the will, but the majority of Inlaw's money is going to DS14. We know this because DH is a lawyer and helped draft their will.

And for those worried about DS15, we try to make sure he knows he is loved just as much as DS14.

By helping to set things up so his little brother inherits everything?

This has to be a troll; no one is this much of an idiot.

I really hope so.

Yup. The will, drafted with DH's help, was a step too far. Nice trolling, but no way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

There are no inheritance worries. DH and his brother (and brother's kids) have a small sum of money coming from the will, but the majority of Inlaw's money is going to DS14. We know this because DH is a lawyer and helped draft their will.

And for those worried about DS15, we try to make sure he knows he is loved just as much as DS14. He is generally very happy and well adjusted, and has a great relationship with my parents. Sadly, my parents live 3+ hours away so they can't visit as much as the inlaws. But they talk to the kids on the phone and computer, and visit 4-5 times a year.

Oh FFS. You cannot be this dumb.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

There are no inheritance worries. DH and his brother (and brother's kids) have a small sum of money coming from the will, but the majority of Inlaw's money is going to DS14. We know this because DH is a lawyer and helped draft their will.

And for those worried about DS15, we try to make sure he knows he is loved just as much as DS14.

By helping to set things up so his little brother inherits everything?

This has to be a troll; no one is this much of an idiot.

I really hope so.

Troll take from the real world. It's not that uncommon to have a favorite.

[Anonymous]

DH told them that the will was not fair or advisable. But he was working as a professional and couldn't change the will without FIL's permission.

[Anonymous]

As an ethical matter, DH should have not drafted the will, but rather, referred his parents to another qualified attorney.
He also violates the ethical canon by discussing the terms with anyone other than his clients.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH told them that the will was not fair or advisable. But he was working as a professional and couldn't change the will without FIL's permission.

Complete BS. No attorney is required to work on a particular will and absolutely no real professional is going to work on his rich parents' will that directly affects him and his family. Stop trolling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Limit all contact. Not ok.

Agree. They are very manipulative. I would assume they did the same to their own kids.
I would avoid any contact unless in larger group situations or holidays. Sorry to hear they are local but they are psycho. Perhaps an intervention and counseling is necessary.
Continue to support DS15, and I'd flat out tell DS14 to stop being a manipulated tool by psycho grandparents trying to make trouble and mistreating people.